I am all of those good things especially aroung my crush. Lets say he is..."Peter". SO Peter might like me, but I dont no. I've asked all my friends and his friends if he likes me, and he says, I dont no maybe. I'M FURIOUS!!! SOMEONE HELP ME BEFORE I EXPLODE!!!
2007-02-09 11:06:48 · 35 answers · asked by blah blah blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't force someone to like you. The more you try to get someone to like you the more you'll push them the other way. Just be yourself and if it's meant to be it will happen otherwise just remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-02-09 11:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a solution that may or may not work.
First you have to close your eyes and visualize a perfect setting - on the beach, on an island, in front of the pool. See this place and you are the only person there. If you are in a meadow next to a stream imagine you're sitting by a tree and relaxing, enjoying the quiet - the insects - the babbling of the stream - isn't it peaceful.
Now - tell yourself that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, as long as you are happy with yourself.
Do this every day for the next ten years. You will feel so good and in charge of your life that "Peter" won't even matter - he'll be just a distant memory.
Ah - better, huh?
FP
2007-02-09 11:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i totally know what you are going through. I am very popular at my school, sweet, and don't wanna brag, but i am pretty. It seems like i can't get that special guy to look my way either. I have advice- Ok valentines day is coming up, so buy him some chocolate or make him cookies- if he is overjoyed he probally likes you. You know what they say a way to a mans heart is through his stomach!
You could also come right out and ask him if he likes you. If he does not dont feel bad there are a lot of fish in the sea and it is his loss, not yours!
2007-02-09 11:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know..... a relationship is not built up on how pretty or handsome your partner is. Try to make him know the real you. Maybe the you he is seeing is a superficial, shallow, wanabe kinda girl. Make sure you prove him wrong. Try to look more natural around him. Don't try to look like the center of attention in the room. Make him notice you because your personality,kindness, smile, and laugh stand out, not your looks. Also try to not force yourself to laugh with him and talk to him everytime he is near. Or else you will look desperate. Talk to him every other day. Make him wonder "hey this girl is great, Ishould try to get to know her more because she doesn't seem like some desperate freak." Be yourself. Don't stress yourself over whether this "peter" likes you or else it's going to show you want him really badly. Tip: make sure your overall outside look is not the oly think you worry about when you try to impress somebody or get somebody's attention. I wish you the best with "peter"
another hint try to think of something unique to do for him at valentine's day so he knows you care about him.
2007-02-09 11:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you ever think that maybe you're not his type. Don't misunderstand me, you sound beautiful but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If he doesn't like you the way you are, then he'll never like you. So don't try to change yourself. There'll be someone else, if you're as great as you say you are there will be other guys. So good luck honey!
2007-02-09 11:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be stressing over this boy! Come on girl....if you think you are pretty thats an extremely good thing..so you have this crush, you gotta play hard to get that almost ALWAYS works...don't make it obvious you like this boy anymore. You gotta give him something to chase..every boy needs a chase so give him one! It will drive him crazy and thats in a very good way!
2007-02-09 11:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 4 Girls!! :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point you are going to learn in life that you have to just go for what you want. May as well learn that now, and learn to deal with the consequences of it not going well. It's going to happen all your life, take control of the fear now and you will be happier for it in the long run.
2007-02-09 11:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you are so annoying asking people about yourself all the time ... bore me! Run Peter Run
2007-02-09 11:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by SG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww. That DOES suck. But what can you do? Maybe you should relax a bit. You may be scaring him off with your detective routine! Give him a chance to come to YOU. Good luck...
2007-02-09 11:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you're crush "peter" i bet he is a shy person dont worry. start to talk to him more, send him notes. let him know you like him.
2007-02-09 11:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋