my bf calls me a name from the ps1 game final fantasy 7 he calls me aeris
he tells me it because aeris was his dream girl until i came along
not that i overly mind it, its just a bit creepy at time
its gona crush him when i ask him to stop
how can i tell him not to call me that with out hurting his feelings
2007-02-09 11:05:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm....sounds like he's calling you that because that's his pet name for you. He made it special not just baby or sweetie. I know it annoys you (believe me) i've kinda learned to like it. But if it's bothering you tell him maybe as a joke like Hey, what's wrong with my name? or just tell him nicely Um, that's kinda getting on my nerves can you maybe cut down on it? Hope this helps you! :)
2007-02-09 11:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~Holls~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really bother you that much? In the larger scheme of things does it really matter? By all means, if it bothers you that much you can ask him to stop because you think it's 'creepy', but sacrifices need to be made in all relationships and this is such a small one. Pick your battles and make sure it's worth it before you approach him on this.
2007-02-09 11:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically that is not any longer call calling. that is like him calling you "Shorty", "stupid" or comparable. although that is not any longer extraordinary to be called extraordinary till you extremely think of you're and happy with it. you are able to desire to tell him that it hurts you to be recognized as extraordinary as you have thoughts and if he loves you he will comprehend your thoughts. Or chortle it off. Do whichever works right for you and your relationship with your boyfriend.
2016-11-03 00:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you do not like the nickname. it depends on his sensitivity level (and the way you say it of course) whether or not it will hurt him or not. tell him that you just do not appreciate the little nick name he's given you and nicely ask him to stop. no biggie, but like i said, if the guy is really sensitive it may hurt him, but he'll get over it.
2007-02-09 11:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of stopping it completely, ask him to call you something you like more. Like me for example, my bf asked me the night we got together what I wanted to be called. I told him, and to this day, he remembers everything I said.
2007-02-09 11:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Chey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him. Honesty is the best policy after all!
If he is good to you, then he will understand. If not, well ... that might mean underlying issues in the future. Good luck and much love!
2007-02-09 11:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you don't like the name... Or tell him that YOU are HIS dream girl now, not "Aeris"...
2007-02-09 11:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, that is really sweet that he calls you that...... But if you really want him to stop, i suggest you just sit him down and tell him how much you love him but show him how much you really want to be called by your real name. don't be too harsh and tell him that you absolutely hate the nickname
2007-02-09 11:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by some girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hurting your feelings by calling you this name.
Tell him that.
2007-02-09 11:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you care if you hurt his feelings? He didn't ask you if you liked it, he didn't care whether you liked it or not! just tell him!
2007-02-09 11:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋