I was seeing a guy for about 6 mths. We broke up mutually, and remained friends.
After we broke up we still shagged.
During our relationship I had health issues "DOWN THERE" , i didnt let him know as nothing major....UNTIL....I went to doctors and found i had virus...(Still nothing major) just needed us both to have antibiotics.
I rang him knowing he wouldnt want anything to do with it and asked him for a favour. He wouldnt come over unless i told him on the phone what the favour was.
After 3 days of trying to get him over, i eventually txt him and said i'd seen a doctor and wanted to see him cos to embarrasing to say on phone.
Ive never heard from him since!.... My question is.. Do I let him know what he's got??? All i ever asked was for a favour... Told him no big deal, he just had to come pick up something from my place. (the antibiotics!)
2007-02-09 10:58:31 · 15 answers · asked by Amazon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As embarrassing as it seems, you should have been completely direct. Oh and infecting someone (whether curable or not) IS a big deal.
2007-02-09 11:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly. You played games. You should have rang, told him the problem, and said you had antibiotics for him. Why did you make such an issue over it, trying to force him to visit? You lied about and STD for 6 months- what do you expect?
2007-02-09 19:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't evade this problem! Everything that is related to human's health, no matter if it's of big or small importance, has to be clear! I think the best thing you could do is to tell him without any "hem and haws".
2007-02-09 19:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Annabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should try one more text he may be thinking you are pregnant !!! say in the text about him needing to have the antibiotics and leave it at that, if he is stupid enough to ignore the text then thats up to him - but he may go to the doctors on his own behalf without even letting you know, dont blame yourself either remember it takes two to tango
2007-02-09 19:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Because he could potentially infect someone else and then it would be all on you. Just let the man know what's going on...it's not going to kill you or him...but it will save another person from going through the same embarrassment you're going through.
2007-02-09 19:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He put two and two together.It doesn't take a rocket scienctist to figure it out.You might want to take better care of yourself.Like use protection.I'm from the states and AIDS is everywhere.Where u are too.Good luck
2007-02-09 19:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should put that thing away until the Doctor gives you the go ahead. You should start being more responsible and wrap your tool more often.....
2007-02-09 19:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Side 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling him you saw a doctor you kind of clued him in that hemight want to get checked out, so I wouldn't freak out too much. But yes, he should know.
2007-02-09 19:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is important that you tell him, it will be CRUEL for you not to. whether you like it or not, you are in this situation together and his welfare is as important as yours. will you still hesitate if it was something more serious??
2007-02-09 19:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Double A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you never know who else hes been with may have it by now
2007-02-09 19:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by dylan f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋