i've known this guy for three months and have been hanging out with him for about 2 months. We hang out about 2 or three days a week and just watch movies in his dorm room. about a week ago we kissed for the first time. i didn't want to kiss him until he asked me out but it just happened. Then yesterday i chill with him again and we hook-up for the second time...just making out and only above the belt stuff. i don't get why he hasn't asked me out yet. at first i thought he might just want me as a hook-up but then why wait for me to be ready to kiss him for two months. my next thought was that he just want's to keep his options with other girls opened (b/c he knows and flirts with other girls.) I mean i just want a date i don't want to be exclusive or anything!
Why wont he ask me out??
And I've told him that i like him (about 3 weeks ago.)
I just don't know what to do...maybe move on...stupid boys....
2007-02-09 10:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In addition he goes home a lot and he even invited me next time he goes home I can go with him.
At the same time he talks to a lot of girls...I just don't know.
2007-02-09 10:53:56 · update #1
u ask him!!!!!!!! why do the guys always have to ask?
2007-02-09 10:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by motleybadass 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don' t wait around. Make a move but be sublte. He is the only one that can answer your question. But don't bang your head in a relationship that won't move forward. If he wants to play around and you are not cool with it then be honest . You might end up hurting yourself.
2007-02-09 19:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What men want they persue. He probably likes you alright, he's just not really into you. You can either slow down and see if more grows or kick him to the curb for someone who is more truely willing to go the extra mile for you.
2007-02-09 18:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by MirandaPen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like hes playing a game and not a very nice one if he dosent want to go out with you at least he could say so.
2007-02-09 19:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by cooljoe7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to play, dont invest to much time or worry on this one, you start talking to others guys, as soon as you can.
2007-02-09 18:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to ask him out for a romantic movie.
2007-02-09 18:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe the problem is he really likes you but hes afraid to take it to the next level because he might get his heart broken or maybe you might get your heart broken!!!!!
2007-02-09 19:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by bbsos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you wanted you as a girlfriend, he would have asked you. He's just seeing how far he can get with you.
2007-02-09 18:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him out.....or go over his place, maybe he wants to see more of what you're all about
2007-02-09 18:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on or just ask him out your self!
2007-02-09 19:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by SocCerCraZy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheap, this is what he calls dating,
2007-02-09 18:57:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋