my friend cycled through girls non-stop. Then he started going out with this girl and its been 7 months and he's madly in love with her . This new girl comes to my school and she wants to go out with me, I like her alot but my hands are tied because I'm too busy this weekend so I can't talk to her or ask her out or anything. My friend Kicks his girlfriend of 7months to the curb, because he's apparently 'too busy", and now he asks out the new girl today and they're probably going to go out.... tonight
I can't just give up
and getting the friend and his ex back together is just plain stupidity it ain't happening, he treated her like crap...
2007-02-09 10:35:57 · 8 answers · asked by x_xhackx_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if I let him just do what he does then, he will most likely hurt her... :/
my life is far too busy for me to go out hunting for a girlfriend... the new girl just happens to go to my school thats how I even have an aquaintance and the privelage to know her
I am not desperate I am busy
2007-02-09 11:03:13 · update #1
steal her from him! your friend is a player! i think you shouls flirt with her and get her to break up with him!
2007-02-09 10:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would play the friend angle. If your so called "friend" goes through girls so quickly, than this new one doesn't have long. If you are genuinely interested in her than tell her that you are busy this weekend with whatever you are busy with but you would love to hang out with her after school, at lunch, or whenever.
Even if your friend does go out with her this weekend, even if he does get her first, you will win in the end because he will eventually lose interest, and then you will be right there waiting for her.
2007-02-09 10:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel jealous because you let a good thing pass you by? I think you don't need to worry at all. I mean its just a first date and it doesn't amount to starting a relationship. If you like the girl then pursue her. Don't meddle with your friend's past. Its his mess he should take care of it. In your case If the new girl won't take you back then its her loss. More fishes out there in the ocean. Hope this helps!
2007-02-09 10:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldnt worry about it to much, dont waste to much of your valuable time, if she is going out with him tonight, am I to understand you would want to go out with her tomorrow night? I mean take a moment and listen to yourself, you are far to desperate, there are so many cute girls out there.
Let him do his thing, you do yours. If she pushes up on you later, great, let her do a little work. Otherwise start trippin with some other girls. You will be better off.
2007-02-09 10:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First all, your friend sounds like a complete dumbshit. Why not tell him what a complete *** he is. Second of all, did you tell him you were interested? If you had, and he did what he did, I might have to wonder what kind of friend he is? eh? Get some balls and ask the damn girl out. its not that hard.
2007-02-09 10:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by fcksrsly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r serious about trying to go out with new girl, and u seem like u are, u r gonna have to find time out of ur busy sceduale to talk to her , and tell her and ask her out, and ur gonna have to do it fast, b4 ur friend gets her, so call her now, and if ur busy now, go to a bathroom, and do call her, its a good excuse, and then tell her u cant tlk long, but that u like her and that u wanna go out, and i thnk itd b hot if a guy had to rush like that, itd b like a super herop, lol, anyways, just do that, but do it as like soon as possible!!! totally good luck dude!!
2007-02-09 10:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if they go out? doesn't mean she'll enjoy being with him. ask her out for weekend, she might prefer you and that'll be a slap in the face to the other guy!
2007-02-09 10:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still need to ask her out.. did you friend know that you liked her? maybe if he didnt and you tell him, he will back down.. maybe he will tell her that he has a friend taht would love to take her out instead. stand up to him.. you never know it may be your true love!! don't give up!!
best of luck to you!
2007-02-09 10:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by JACKiE LYNN=BiGGeST COLTS FAN!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋