Today I did not want to go to school so she scream at me for 2 hours telling me i good 4 nothing and she started to throw water at me she pour 15 cups of cold water on me! Saying i had to get up and go to school! I said no am tired! And when she pour water on my art work i got really upset so i called 911 and the police came! But before they came my parents made me change my clothes and lie to the police officer or else i would have to sleep out side!
2007-02-09 10:35:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This happen today and my mom and dad are leaving today to go to Las Vegas so who fault was it!
2007-02-09 10:39:33 · update #1
my dad and mom are together and my dad did not care i threw so water back at her to fight fire with fire! then i had to go to school because my parents drag me to school
2007-02-09 10:41:57 · update #2
15 years old
2007-02-09 11:53:15 · update #3
You were both wrong, your mother was right in insisting you go to school, but wrong in the way she approached it. You need an education, I know most kids don't see that but believe me its true. You were wrong in refusing to get up. School is your job right now and you can't miss a day of work or school just because you are tired. Sorry, I know you were hoping that your mom was wrong.
2007-02-09 10:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well at 15 you should be in school, if you were so tired, why don't you go to bed earlier? And no I don't agree with 15 glasses of water being thrown on you but , I don't agree with the fact that you stayed in the bed for two hours and her trying to get you up, Maybe she felt that that was her last try,Would you rather she got a belt and beat your ---? because that what my dad would have done to me, or he would have grabbed the side of the bed and turned it oves with you in it (like he did my brother) see my dad was military and he didn't play the game!
So if you felt that your parent were so wrong you should have told the police what your parents did, showed them the wet cloths and told them that they said they would make you sleep outside in sub O weather and maybe the cops would have taken you to a nice Foster home or Children Services. Because let me tell you if I ever called the police on my parents they would beat my --- and send me with them. Do I feel that is child abuse no way, what I think is they taught me to respect , a work ethic, and I learned at an early age that I had to get up, go to school, get up and go to work, and become a functioning member of society. Would you like to come live at my house?
2007-02-09 20:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by kathy h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? Second, how many times this year have you missed school because you are tired? Third, I think you and your family should seek counseling; calling you a good for nothing no matter how mad she is; is wrong, pouring water on you is one thing but your art work?? And then making you lie to the cops??
2007-02-09 18:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think your mum got a bit upset with you not wanting to go to school .The problem´s only get worse not only for you but for the rest of the family if the police are involved , lucky it was only water she throw at you , School is very important of all children and even for us adult´s everything you learn now is a help for your future . It is your parents job to make sure you go to school. Yes it´s hard to have to get up in the morning and go to school, but trust me it´s even harder when you can´t find a job & can´t buy the thing´s you want . If I could go back to school I would . try to understand that your mum only want´s the best for you ,why don´t you sit down and talk about thing´s rather than fight . there´s to much of that already in the world . cheer up
2007-02-09 18:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you belong in school. It was wrong for you to put undue stress on your mom. She probably just snapped and needed a way to get your attention. Being tired is not a reason to stay home. Forgive your mom, smile for the next three years, grow up, then leave home.
Of course once you start paying your own rent and bills it will all seem very different to you.
2007-02-10 02:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by DDLynn l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forgive, grow up, go to school, say you are sorry, tell mom & dad you love them, do your chores without back talk, and then one day you will be out on your own having to answer to no one and life will be good !!!
Thought it may seem like a long ways away, your day will come when you will nbeed to be the adult and run your life. Just be sure to let your parents know you appreciate them for putting up with you. Parenting is NOT easy. Kids claim to know it all yet contribute nothing to the household. How sad !
GOOD LUCK !! & HAPPY FRIDAY !!
: )
2007-02-09 18:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know what ? Both you and your parent still needs some growing up.You are the picture of your parent so while it is still early, you have to really study hard and not follow the wrong and be a good example to them and others as well.As they grow old, they will come to realize their shortcomings.Just do not neglect your studies for the simple reason you`re tired.Look at the chain reaction for that and learn from it.
2007-02-10 01:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by lizashibuya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong for attempting to get out going to school. At this point in your life going to school is your job. Getting an education so that you can go out and make your mark in this world. With out going to school and soaking up all the knowledge that you can you will have to learn these words "would you like an apple pie with that?"
To your mother I say way to go. Kudos to her for putting an effort into her job of raising you and helping you get the education that you need and deserve. Next time she should tell the officers that she was just getting you up and showered for school since you did not have the will power to do so yourself.
2007-02-09 18:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you would call 911 for a situation like that. They have more important things to deal with. 911 is for EMERGENCIES and what you described is not one. Your Mom tried to get you up and that didn't work so she poured water on you. Big deal. What parents haven't resorted to that. I think you need to grow up and realize your parents know what is best for you and want you to have an education. You should most defiantly apologize to her and considering apologizing to the 911 service for wasting their time.
2007-02-09 18:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Um.. you both are wrong, and very dysfunctional. Your mom was right to yell at you for not going to school, but she shouldn't hae thrown water at you. At from my experience, if that was all she did, they didn't even have to make you change. If the cops came they would have said sorry and moved on their way. It was stupid of you to not get up and to call the police. It was stupid of your mom to throw water at you. You are a child. If you want to make grown up decisions like whether you go to school or not, then go out and support yourself... sorry but its the truth.
2007-02-09 18:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mandi Jo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋