Any ideas for what to do about this? I just moved into a new place a month ago with a room mate (who, thankfully I didn't know well before), and she brought home a guy on Monday (Monday!), and he...stayed over... last night. Our rooms are fairly close... needless to say I didn't get much sleep, and the sounds were ungodly. What the hell do I do? I'm way too shy to say anything... I know I'll just end up going nuts. Any suggestions would just be peachy.
2007-02-09 10:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There has to be some respect for each others privacy, You are going to have to quit being so shy, and just let her know that all that noise is too distracting for you, cant sleep. I guarantee you, if that was you making all this noise, no matter what the noise was (sexual or otherwise), she wouldnt waste time comming and telling you, i promise you shed be right there telling you to quiet down. She may even come in while you are doing it, and tell you. So dont give it another thought, if it bothers you that much, TELL HER!! Good luck. (If it persist after you say something, get another roomie, and this time let them know what YOUR policies are in the apt.)
2007-02-09 10:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rude. You might want to jokingly let her know that you heard it ("So, did YOU have fun last night?"), laughing and making it not such a big deal. Then, say you understand ("Yeah, sex really is great!"). Then, ask her ("Hey, do you think you guys could go to his place next time, though?"'). Keeping it light will avoid conflict. Try not to say anything about how gross it was, nobody likes to be told that they are disgusting, even if it is their sexual noises.
2007-02-09 10:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by rkd 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just tell her in a nice way the their making to much noise, she should understand.
2007-02-09 10:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by shorty21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just jealous?
Get your own b/f and compete with the decibels!
2007-02-09 10:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tape her sounds and tell her to listen to the tape.
Trust me, she'll start being quiet!
2007-02-09 10:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
join in on the fun
2007-02-09 10:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by ToddMan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go bang on the door and cheer them on! lol!
2007-02-09 10:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't go and tell the world how good I am, ok?
2007-02-09 10:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋