ok i went out wit this guy about 2 months ago and i cheated on him but i didnt tell him i had my ex go along wit a fake story 2 break up wit him so my boyfriend got mad at me for breakin up wit him so he didnt talk 2 me for a couple weeks and hes recently been talkin 2 me and were friends agean but i want to teell him that i cheated but i dont want any more drama. i dont ever cheat buy my boyfriend didnt do anything and i was only his second girlfriend ever and were in highschool. but should i tell him that i cheated or keep it a secret from him still or what?
much help is appreciated thx
2007-02-09 10:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him the truth.
2007-02-09 10:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is bad no matter what the reason is, there is no actual good reason to cheat. It is a lie.
It is a lie that can be handles in two ways: admit to it, or cover it up with another lie which could lead to more lies.
Either way you go, it will not have a good effect because there will no longer be any sincere trust.
Weigh the consequences (no such thing as a perfect lie): what if he finds out and confronts you, or is it better to admit to him?
2007-02-09 10:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him now you may not stay friends, but it's best to be honest. If your just going to stay friends then you should tell him right now. If you keep lying then the bigger the lie will get. Just tell him, and see what happens. Just tell him you rather be honest about it now, because you feel really bad.
2007-02-09 10:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep this to myself. You are not married to him and it could cause more hurt and problems than it is worth. Please use protection when having sex and get the HPV vaccination. My daughter is 21 and facing cancer due to contracting HPV.
2007-02-09 10:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell him sooner or l8ter he'll find out and it'll be worst he'll be pissed crushed you were his 2nd girl hello just tell him face to face no cards email or phone face to face. my the lord be with you bye bye.
2007-02-09 10:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by I_Luv_Bois 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends keep each others secrets not keep secrets from each other and if you and him are friends you should listen to this saying
2007-02-09 10:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by J-Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel comfortable tell him if not keep it to yourself the relationship is over anyway
2007-02-09 10:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's no benifit to it.
2007-02-09 10:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by bradley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋