We have been talking / dating for about a month now. How do you go about that conversation? When is a good time to bring it up? I have just been out of the dating scene for a LONG while so I am new (again) at this. Thanks.
2007-02-09 09:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I pretty much put my cards on the table at the beginning. I usually tell them right up front. But what might work for you would be starting a conversation about the future. Ask what the other person might want out of the future. What their plans are and expectations. Over a quiet candle light dinner makes for a nice atmosphere for this conversation.
Good Luck!!
2007-02-09 09:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really... You have to feel that person out to see if that is where he is at. Without being obvious. Is this relationship strictly monogomous? What is he talking about? You will know when the time is right to bring it up. You were out of the dating game for some reason or another. Use your instincts and if they have failed you in the past, then read a book written by Greg Behrendt... "Don't Waste The Pretty". Very insightful.
2007-02-09 18:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ice Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like where it's going then reinforce by saying "I'm really enjoying the time I spend with you" then they have opportunity to agree or disagree. Ask "where do you see this going?" "I see this being ______ what do you think?" etc ....it's been a month so don't jump overboard but just test the waters a little...if that person wants to talk more about it then they will allow for more conversation and if not then you don't look crazy.
2007-02-09 18:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by DebChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe it's a little soon. Give it a few more weeks, see how it goes. When the time comes, just do it when you're out together alone. "I think things are going really well and I think I'd like to take it to the next level and date each other exclusively" - something like that.
2007-02-09 17:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not like my answer, but as soon as you and he decide that you are a couple, the soon you guys know what each other do/don't want, the sooner you can start to doing or not doing them, Just be you babe................Good Luck
2007-02-09 18:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly would just come out and say it b4 things get really deep. like if he's ready for sex and your not and u don't tell him till that night it would be acquired just be casual if u think he will just drop you then he's not right for you if he likes you he will respect how you feel and go with it, if not then just end it. i hope that helps you.
2007-02-09 18:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by clerks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋