OMG!!!! there is this guy that i like and i told my best friend not to long ago. and she was going to write a note to him saying that i like him. but i told her not to write one but then i said she could only if she didnt say that i liked him and dont tell me what u wrote until she gave it to him. she gave it to him and one of my other friends stole it from him and read it.then later i asked her what it had said and she wouldnt tell me so i asked the frind that had stole it and read it. i found out soon enough that it had said that i liked him even though i told her not to !!!! i am so mad at her.... and the friend that read it asked me the other day is it turee that i like him and i had to lie to him i said i dont know. i dont know if he took it serouisly or not but now i have to act as if i dont like him. even though i really do.and my friends tell me that he really does like me but how do i know for sure right?? maybe his best friend will know should i ask him? i really like him!!!!
2007-02-09 09:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by courtney. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"WOW you really have one problem. While if it was me i would, go up to that him and just tell him. That I had asked my friend to write him a letter and i told her not to tell you in the letter that i like you. And when she was going to give it to you one of her friends took it and read it. So I went up to her and asked her what she had put in the letter and she would not tell me. So i went to that friend that took it and read it. And he told me that even though i told her not to she said that i liked you. And people started to come up to me and ask me about the letter so I said that I don't like you. But the truth is that I really do like you." But that's what I would do if that had happened to me.
2007-02-09 10:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by littlesiscrys15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courtney -
You learned the hard way.....dont ever give an important task to a friend.
Why do have to act like you don't like him?? Change it up and
say "yah, so I like him".....he's seems real nice or he's hot or whatever it is that makes you like him. Just be straight up.
Whats the worst thing that can happen??? He doesn't like you??
No harm, no foul. If you find out he doesn't like you then you just
say....yah I liked him, but he wasn't interested.....no big deal.
There are tons of other guys that I could like..........I am deciding
who that lucky guy is going to be.
I know its hard, but I wish someone would have told me this
when I was in school.
Also, whats worse?? Not knowing or finding out that he isnt interested?? He could really like you, but now that you are telling everyone that you dont like him.........HE THINKS YOU DON'T and I promise you....he will NOT "go for you" if he thinks that you DO NOT LIKE HIM!!!
2007-02-09 10:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER ask your friend to do something like this... cat's out of the bag now though. just tell him the truth. You'll regret it more if you tell him, and he rejects you than if you lie and keep quiet, not knowing what happens.
2007-02-09 09:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth honesty is the best policy youll never be sure if yoyu dont try. i know how it can be with dishonest friends just today my friend asked me if i would go out with this guy i said yes but she just wanted to know if i was interested he didnt tell her to ask ME out he just wanted A girlfriend so my other friend 3 wayed her with me silent and she confessed to her and she let me tell everyone i was going out withh him so i know how it feels
2007-02-09 10:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant know for sure if you dont give him a chance. and it depends how long youve know him for, and how he is. But try it i mean you cant really loose anything...right. Dont exactly tell him but show it and just slightly let it flow and let him see it. get to know him more and if you really like how he is and cant stand to be without him or cant wait to talk to him then go for it!
2007-02-09 10:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by jessikurz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sound like your friend was doing you a favor, and you F 'ed up by saying you dont know, try telling him you do, or you'll never be with him, cause he thinks you don't even like him.
2007-02-09 09:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgshh well first off never lie to a guy.. by telin him u dont like him when u do. big no no. ok soo what u do is tell him the truth.. that way he doesnt get the wrong feelings for u. or u can just be like i think ur really cool we should hangout sometime.. & see wat his reaction is. but really dont be mad at ur friend.. she probably only wanted to help. soo its not her fault.
2007-02-09 10:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by sarah g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like why dont u just tell him.
I bet he will like u back...depending of how u r.
I would of been mad at that friend if she told him..
She isnt ur friend if she would be doing that.
G00D lUCK1
(( hope I helped))
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2007-02-09 10:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out o make sure he likes you, because as soon as you act like you don't like him he might forget about you and move on
2007-02-09 09:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you ashamed for being into this guy? It should madder what others think. You should tell him your self then there is no more wondering.
2007-02-09 10:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋