its so annoying cuz i like him and i pretty much know that he likes me but.........he so shy!!!!!!ugh! he wont talk! he does but he only talks to guys u know like the guys that are shy to talk to girls but talk a lot around guys... so idk what should i do?should i talk to him becasue it is really ackward to be with him since he is so shy....... he looks at me a lot but he wont say anything!!!!
2007-02-09 09:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THAT'S THE SAME WITH ME!!! I'm so happy that someone's with me, and obviously, he likes you. But he's too shy, so you need to help him out. Say hi to him, or smile when he stares. Whatever you do when you talk to him, don't blab. Even if it is awkward. DO NOT BLAB. My bf got really annoyed even when he was shy, but he didn't say anything, and i wouldn't let him talk. So make HIM feel awkward, and make HIM blab. This boy needs ur help, and when he starts flirting, or even better, teasing you, you know that's a grrreat sign. My bf acts like that. aaaaand, make sure your alone with him when you talk. he may be shy around other ppl, so that might be your solution, there. (i mean, adults.) hoped i helped, and GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-09 09:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I'm the shy guy that would be in that situation!!!
go up to him, it'll scare the crap out of him because he won't really know what to say, just say hey whats up? If it seems like he's blowing you off by giving you short answers, he's not, he wants to talk to you but he's afraid and you've got to ease him in to being comfortable around you. He won't say anything to you because he gives you those looks in expectance that you'll strike the conversation sometime because he thinks you don't like him or aren't interested, if you start the conversation... he will think otherwise and doubt his own original thought about you.
In short he'll start talking to you
2007-02-09 17:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by x_xhackx_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is this shy then it doesn't seem he wants to talk to any girl or has any real interest in one at the present time. If he enjoys talking to other guys as you say then maybe the best thing you can do is to leave him alone and see what happens. Sometimes leaving someone alone and let them stew in their own soup so to speak wakes them up and they begin to show interest in someone and talk a little more. Know what I mean?
2007-02-09 17:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is more comfortable talking around other guys, have a mutual guy friend start a conversation that you can all share in. Once the ice has been broken conversation should start to flow more naturally between you two and who knows where that will lead.......good luck
2007-02-09 17:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by pepc1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem about two months ago. Well, what I did was I got a group together and went to the movies, my best friend, a guy friend, and the guy i liked. we started talking and really hit it off. it was an amazing trip. get him in a small group so he doesnt feel pressure alone with you
2007-02-09 17:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i know a guy alot like him... his names Will hes soo shy its cute, well he use to not talk AT ALL but i spent alot of time with him mostly making him feel aqward... i know it was mean, but somehow it worked! he talkes to me and all now (this all over like 4 months...) we dont really go out, but he definitly is difrent and i think he has more fun with "life" now lol... how old are you (and him) by the way, because that will make it easier for me to help you
2007-02-09 17:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jerseygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha r u goin out with him?
well if soo just try to be open with him tell him that u really like him in all. & tell him to be his self around u. you can also start up a good convo with him by askin wat sports he is in... or just ask him if he wants to chill with u sometime.< it really helps then u guys can get to kno each other better.. & take some of the perssure of ur shoulders. hope it works out =)
2007-02-09 17:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by sarah g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and after a while he'll get more comfy around you and open up more. Just have patience.
2007-02-09 17:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by fanciful me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you learn how to spell and use words first? I can barely even read that. If you talk like that it's no wonder why he doesn't.
2007-02-09 17:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a card or an e-mail. Maybe he can communicate better that way until he develops the inner strength to approach you.
2007-02-09 17:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by friday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋