Please Help me !!!!!!?

Question

A kid in Glen Rock, NJ the next town over jumped off the roof of his school i nthe middle of the night and commited suicide, he was an honor student and everything(this was yesturday), and last week a kid in my town overdosed on heroin and died, I don't understand why, I mean I feel suicidal sometimes, but Iwould never commite, I can't do that to my family, its not fair to them(a teacher at my school who is in a wheel chair after getting a serious injury told our class how he wanted to commit once but couldn't do that to his mom because he was all she had, his seemingly meanless speach to most, has kept me form commiting), but I don't understand why these people are putting us threw this pain and why they are doing that to themselves, I just wish they were back here, and I would like to point out that both this kids, and where I live are from pretty RICH towns and in our towns these things aren't supposed to happen, because we have everything we want(material wise), people don't see

beyond the surface, I look like a normal happy kid on the outside but inside I have more problems than can be counted and nobody understands at all, I get made fun of 24/7 by either kids at school or my own brother who is supposed to protect me, somedays I want to commit, but i can't, I can't do that to my parents and I can't I refuse to be antoher statistic! Someone just I don't know, I need someone that will im me sometimes, be nice, say hey how are you, just to keep me going, to comfort me, someone please?

thank you :-)


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Answer 1

I had a friend in the military that jumped off a building in germany and he died instantly so I know how it feels to lose a freidn. we did everything together.. he just couldnt open up to anybody. now a days we all have computers and can interact with anybody at any time ..so why feel so alone? ther are some good people that will be more than willing to talk to you about anything on your mind... suicide is a dead end path to take.. you even lose the chance for redemption in th afterlife if you commit suicide.. talk to us . we are here

Answer 2

You really should be talking to a good counsellor if you feel so terrible. Surely you have a school counsellor, start with that person, if they can't help you have your folks provide you with a paid therapist. But you really need to be talking to someone who can help you with your issues.
I will tell you that a great deal of what you are going through is happening because of where you are in life right now, in other words being a teenager sucks. But all of this will pass with time, and things will get better.

Answer 3

don't worry. your probably a great person! I do the same thing. I hate myself sometimes, I want to go away... forever. the only thing keeping me here. is my cat I've had her since kindergarden she's the only thing that makes me truly happy. I have to stay and take care of her. My cat doesn't make me feel bad i can tell her anything. all she does is smile knowingly. get yourself a cat. they don't need walks everyday. and they aren't mean and talk behind your back. your not alone. don't think you are, it might be hard but talk to a counsler. well good luck! stay here whatever you do. bad times will pass, they always do. oh and reading the 7 habits of highly effective teens by sean covey might bring you up! it helped me. chow for now
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Answer 4

ur going through a tough time.and a wounderful person. look at the good u have in ur heart. u said u dont wont to hurt ur family and that u just think sometimes of suicide. we all feel like that from time to time. in ur goodness ur feeling the pain for other people. that means u have a good heart no matter how others treat u.that means ur stronger then u think. when u think of self destruction, find a good friend, family member and talk about it. talking takes away some of the pain for awhile.face ur fears, talk about them also. find a minister, and talk to them.it is so sad those young people took their own lives, and my heart goes out to u for ur sadness andthose young people who died. life IS worth living. u will have good times and bad times also. and as u grow older, u will begain to understand how inportant it is to live.tell ur family how much u love them and need them at times like these. i dont claim to know everything, but i know god loves u, and will help u if u just ask him and ill be praying for u. god bless u.

Answer 5

you need to help yourself. shame those two kids didn't realize they needed help. What is the point of living if you aren't living, only exsisting? We need to start living. And yea, there are plenty of other people who understand what you are going through. I have a great life, but I didn't choose depression.
take care

Answer 6

this happenings is the problem of society. the parents well known their kids and be friendly. this happens ,less control and over control. keep the kids and solve there feeling also avoid their bad connections

Answer 7

I have only 2 things to say...

1. S h i t happens and some people just don't care enough about life to continue with it.

2. I'm emailing you my screen name. If you ever want to talk and I'm on IM me... and even if I'm not, AIM now lets you IM the person if they're not on. So just IM me if you ever want to talk to someone...

~Caroline

Answer 8

hey girl!

im SO sorry what happened! im glad you arent gonna commit. if you need to talk, just contact me through my profile, and ill be there for ya

Answer 9

the ones who fink about it don't do it its the ones that don't fink that do its getting we rs on hear every day some is like this

Answer 10

u cshouldnt show people your aim