Alright so I'm 20 and still pure myself moving through college. I date girls often enough but I try not to go into situations with them that could lead to sex and I don't stay with any single one for too long (trying to hold some morals, but it's getting harder as I get older).
Anyway, like a lot of other guys, I think a girl who's been with other partners is not really a quality I want in a wife (I think more partners shows less loyalty and I'd worry about what she'd think was o.k. for our kids compared to what I'd think).
I've already met a couple really sweet & pretty girls who have told me they're virgins, which is great, but I also know it's much harder to find girls like this these days. I do know there are enough others out there, and even if I didn't meet them I think I'm okay being a bachelor. I can always go to a bar and throw away my morals anytime, but I wanna try to avoid that.
So, pretend you HAD to look... Where would you go? Churches? Would you trust dating sites?
2007-02-09 09:28:55 · 16 answers · asked by NoSpamplz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah and I forgot to type I don't wanna offend anyone who thinks differently, since that would be a lot of people.
These are just my personal standards. Like I said I've already met a couple virgins (unless they lied! But I doubt they would since they didn't know what I wanted in them & they seemed pretty sweet) so there's obviously still enough around.
Thanks for the responses so far! Again DON'T be offended by the question. Everyone has their own standards. If you don't like mine no worries!
2007-02-09 09:51:01 · update #1
Boy, you've really narrowed your choices and taken a huge chunk of wonderful girls out of the pool just for not being "pure". You belong in the middle ages. Good luck,hope you don't find a virgin bride who cheats on you when you're 30 because she wonders what she was missing! By the way, my husband and Iwere both experienced when we married, and we're coming up to our fifth anniversary.. we are the most committed couple I know. We will never stray.
2007-02-09 09:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good for you for WANTING someone with morals!
Finding someone with the same ethics and values in this day and age is probably a challenge but I am sure there are 5 or 6 really nice ladies left, but you better move fast!
For some reasons, male sluts seem to perceive female virgins as a great prize, whereas male virgins are viewed as huge losers.
Food for thought!
2007-02-09 17:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Noone i 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not in america thats for sure. Our women dont believe in morals. I would go outside the country. I heard many nice things about russian women. I will be 40 in a few months and im staying a virgin till marriage. Trust me on this one man its like looking for a needle in a haystack. You say you will be ok staying a bachelor but trust me u wont be ok after 10 years. Its good taht ur starting ur search early though , i commend u for that
2007-02-10 14:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hah awesome bro. You earn my respect. You arent even that old yet my advice is dont worry about it. Watch out for internet trash that will tell u 2 "go get laid" because they were raised that way.
There are still plenty of girls like you described finding them can be tricky tho. If you wait I think the right one will come along. You already even found some. Stick with them!
My advice is dont worry. You sound confident and apparently you arent worried about sex and thats a good thing in my opinion. Keep at it bro and dont let other peoples opinions matter. What you will find is lots of TRASH on the internet who settled for way less than you will : )
2007-02-09 18:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by virtual_skill 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Easy. Go to Salt Lake City.
A little more realisitic there has to be a website for dating virgins waiting until marriage. Try and google it and see what you come up with.
2007-02-09 17:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Churches have singles groups for your age especially, and you'd be surprised how much fun it can be. Dating sites suck, profile pictures lie. And for guys, you gotta do all the work if you're trying to get a date online.
2007-02-09 17:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MIGHT GO TO CHURCH CAUSE THERE PEOPLE HAVE MORALS, BUT THEY ARE ALSO THE ONES WHO HAVE THE MOST TROUBLE...
I can say that i go to church and there are alot of scruwed up people .... I feel what you are saying cause i am a virgin myself and that is base on my morals as well....
I think that you shouldn't date based on who has their V card, but by who the person really is!!! LOOK 4 SOMEONE WHO ISN'T A HOE. LIFE HAPPENS!!! I WOULD LOOK FROM EXPERIENCE IN DATING ARROUND CAUSE YOUR OPINION MIGHT CHANGE...
2007-02-09 17:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a great man... I hope the best for you...to bad there is not more like you honey.
Churches are good.
I know there are lots of wild girls at church too...I go to church and I can spot the vigins and there are a few
good looking ones too.
I have raised my girls and I knew when they lost the virginity.
There is a way that shows loud and clear.
You go for it honey...ask the Lord to direct you to her and that is is His own will....so He will help you.
2007-02-09 17:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd prefer a girlfriend which has had partners beside of one frustrated by the lack of relationship which would deceive you after a while...
2007-02-09 17:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by bemanni 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Church would be a good place to find a virgin wife.
2007-02-09 17:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋