How can I make my boyfirend trust me ?

Question

We are together for like 2 years but he is so jealous . Sometimes he makes me crazy with his vain curiosities .... mayday mayday help in here !!!!

Answer 1

There's a difference between a little jealousy and knowing it's too much. I think you know it's to much or you would'nt be asking the question. But can you continue with the way it is? Someone with extreme jealousy will not back off, or give you your space. It depends if you see him changing?

Answer 2

Ask him why he is so jealous. When he give you his B.S answer, suggest maybe the real problem is his own fear of you doing the same thing as him when the two of you are apart. Tell him you think his issue is a simple case of pure projection. If he doesn't stop it you will have to re-evaluate the maturity level of my boyfriend and act accordingly.

This shuts a guy up real quick when you throw his issues back in his face. Do take note of his reactions because this is true more that not.

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Answer 3

I had a very jealous partner, nothing i did convinced him it was only him i wanted and nobody else, this went on for 7 years and got worse.I thought he was just majorly insecure so tried to boost his ego constantly..... Turned out he was the one cheating all along with whoever whenever!! Yes, I got rid.

Answer 4

"A girl marries a guy expecting to change him, but she can't,
While a guy marries a girl expecting her to stay the same, but she changes".

You don't need to prove your own faith to him.
Have a serious talk with him, asks him if he trusts you, and tell him you're fed up with him acting that way.
at 2 years he should know you well enough to not be acting that way, so something is wrong.

Then again he could think you're so gorgeous that he's scared that someone else might try to get to you. But if he does it in completely outrageous quanitites, consider giving up. because TRULLY changing someone is near impossible.

Answer 5

been there had an over protective and jealous ex girlfriend. the key word there is EX i sat her down and told her there was nothing to worry about and i truly worship-ed the ground she walked on but to no avail she kept on being daft so after another 2 weeks i showed her the door, tough love has to be used sometimes !

Answer 6

OK, have you asked your bf why is doesnt trust you.

Have you tried to explain that you are with him and he could drive u alway if he carries on with how he treats you etc. Plus tell him how it makes you feel.

If he carries then you have to asked yourself do you want the rest of your life like this or do u want something else.

Answer 7

Assure your boyfriend that he is the only one for you.
example: Tone down your outfit. (wearing sexy clothes may actually imply that your still available. You can be sexy without showing a lot of skin.)
If this does not work, then replace your BF. He is insecure.

Answer 8

Jealousy is caused by insecurity, if that's the way he is, you wont change him. What you have to do is decide whether you can live with his possessiveness.

Answer 9

ok ur boyfriend obviously loves you. & if you love him too then dont just tell him, show it & prove it. consider talkin to him bout how u feel bout his jealousy. tell him that he "needs to trust you". its not fair for u at all to have to put up with that. soo just express ur feelings to him, maybe/ hopefully he will chill & trust you more!

Answer 10

you can't make him trust you, you have to earn it. give him your mobile phone to check in front of you. let him see your emails so he knows you are emailing other men. be open & honest, eventually he will realise there is nothing to hide.

Be pleased that he cares enough about you to worry about losing you.