Should I have a sex change?

Question

I have been having a horrible, horrible, HORRIBLE time trying to date people ! My best option I think would be to have a sex change, 5'4" is acceptable for a women. I often make the mistake of acting desperate, because frankly it is very rare I actually am able to get a date.I am very short 5'4" , I have a 6pack, I am muscular, and have decent looks I think, but girls just are not interested in me. I am unfortunately very shy and insecure which only hurts my chances. I don't have a very good sense of humor, I tend to offend people when I try to crack a joke. I have asked out tall girls, fat girls, really fat girls, disabled girls, dwarfs, midgets, trying to get a date is harder than earning a PhD for me. I have looked into surgery on my legs but that will only add a couple inches, and somtimes things go wrong, putting short people in wheelchairs for life. However I feel If I was in a wheelchair at least girls wouldn't know how tall I was and they would date me out of pity.

Answer 1

No....you don't sound bad. You're not short...Im 5'1 and dated guys your height. Find yourself a nice petite girl...I have guy friends who are you're height and they have gf's. Maybe your just looking in the wrong places.....meet someone with personality.

Answer 2

dude...you are seriously ****** up in the head if you want a sex change because you cant get a date. Ever consider that a short stocky muscular (or so you say) guy would become a hideous looking girl....and what makes you think as a girl youll have any more luck with dates...do guys hit on you often? LMFAO

comon man, either this is a joke, or youre on crack.

Answer 3

I think that a sex change is not going to work, unless you feel like a woman trapped in a man's body. I think that you are trying too hard. Love usually comes when you least expect it. Try building up your self esteem. Being short is not your problem, your lack of confidence and your methods of approach probable need tuned. Maybe some counseling could help you strengthen your self esteem and help you realize some things about yourself. Just don't go for anybody just because they're female, it makes you look desperate. You deserve to find someone who will love and respect you and once you learn to love and respect yourself, it will be easier to find that person.

Answer 4

Hm, I think you have a Napoleon comlpex.
I can guarantee that girls aren't turning you down because you're short. It's not a priority on every girl's list of an ideal guy.
Maybe you're getting turned down because of the way you come across. Work on you sense of humor and personality. Not exactly 'work on it', but maybe let people see that you're a good guy. If you can show a girl that there's more to you than just a desperate guy, you'll get a date.
Good luck.

Answer 5

first off every one has someone out there for them. you just maybe haven't found one out there yet, it sounds to me like you have some good things going for you, your strong,smart, and looks, height is not everything. i have a couple of guy friends who are only 5'2" and they lead happy lives. to be funny people always think that they have to try. but sometimes you can make something some one said funny. and sometimes the truth about some stuff is funny (ex. like the place where i work at is like a soap.) height doesn't matter though people should like you for who you are not how tall you are. people always think that it's on the outside is what counts but its not. it's on the inside always remeber that.

Answer 6

if by change you mean start having sex again then YES

Answer 7

DON'T DO IT!
YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON WHO SHOULD HAVE A SEX CHANGE, I AM!

Answer 8

No