I mean he says thats the way he is " not baing able to do the little things and being affectionate" but I love him so0 mucch I dont know what to do I have invested over 3 yrs of my life in this relationship and as much as i talk to him he doesnt seem to care i know a lot of you are going to say so then leave him but truth is its so0 hard for me to and I just dont want to my question is IS THERE ANYTHING ONE CAN DO TO REKINDLE THE SPARK IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP?? any guys out there what would a grl do to make you fall head over heals for her all over again
2007-02-09 09:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by bkgrl718 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might not like this but, I can tell you that what you should do is find out why are you still in love with someone that doesn't care about you. Please, take some time to explore yourself, and build your self esteem.
Another thing, there is anything you can do to make someone love you!!! You can't force love. I strongly believe that if someone doesn't appreciate, care, and respect you, is not for you. You will find someone who loves you, and respect you for who you are. Once you find that person the SPARK will be there, but from BOTH sides...and you will trully enjoy the relationship.
I will forget about him AND MOVE ONE!!! There are plenty men out there!!
Good Luck and blessings
PS. Please love yourself.
2007-02-09 09:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the magic isnt there it isnt there, ask him about his childhood, many emotional troubles such as affection come from child hood things,, but if he isnt willing to change then the choice is yours and yours alone,, isnt any body on here problem, we can only off Suggestions to you,,
my suggest is to look at your relationship this way,, One year from now do you think you will be this way? 5 years, 10 years, is this what you want to do is waste this much time in a emotionless relationship,
I wasted 11 years being married to a drunk, I call it a learning experience,
2007-02-09 09:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me. A good love affair always brings back the spark of true romance.
2007-02-09 09:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by james o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i wouldn't tell u to leave him..but what u can do is sit down and talk to him and try and see what happened if something went wrong somewhere or is there something u both can do to help each other back up!
Hope the helps u
2007-02-09 09:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Beaute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep! what he said
2007-02-09 09:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋