i know this is a way overused question. but i just want to know if i should make a move or not. heres the circumstances: we talk everyday (mostly argue about stupid stuff) like im better than you.. no youre not.. yes i am. that sort of thing. he walks me to class. he smiles when he looks at me. he jokes around all the time with me. several other ppl say hes flirting... what do you think? thanks for your help! <3
2007-02-09 09:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by loveisthemovement. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I strongly suggest, not to make a move til you're %100 sure, that he likes you, better yet, crazy about you.
And in case you're wondering, when that would be, trust me you'll sense that. He might have a strong feeling for you, i am not denying that, but since you care for this guy, you shouldn't take any chances. My reason is just being, experience and personal observation. Ive seen how friend ships ruined because of this. As soon as, one discloses her/his feelings, things turns around 180 degrees and usually friendship ends sadly with grudges. My own personal case was nothing different, that girl adored me, we laughed, movie, driving, dance,... you name it, til my feelings grew so much that, i thought, it's best to tell her. So, that was the end and i never heard from her again.
The 2nd point is that, since I'm a guy, we can get pretty stupid some times, meaning, when a girl approaches us, we kinda loose interest, what ever this might means, it's pathetic, i know. So my honest advise to you would be, wait til he approaches you, if you can wait. I know it'll be hard, but it'll be rewarding ! Just be careful and good luck !
2007-02-09 09:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same problem! And I'm sorry, but I don't have an appropriate answer for you. But, if you like him, make the move. A simple one, for example ask him out to the movies with a couple (your close) mutual friends. It's casual and friendly and maybe (only maybe!) if YOU call him (not your friends!), he'll get the message. On the other hand, you could ask him out wherever by yourself, so you can be alone. But that could be awkward if he doesn't like you that way.
2007-02-09 17:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u for sure cuz a boy who doesn't like a gurl doesn't do that so he definately like u and make the first move if you are sure he likes u say something cuz he is waiting for u if he walks u to class thats a sign that he has made a small move and its your turn to make the other big move!SO DO IT TELL HIM DON'T LET ANYONE OR ANYTHING HOLD U BACK!!!!!!
2007-02-09 17:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by gillian k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cannot answer the question completely
only you know the true answer
but it sounds like a yes
2007-02-09 17:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, from what you say. But, guys are wierd. However...don't wait for him to ask you out. Ask him out yourself. Not like you asked that...but...whatever.
2007-02-09 17:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you two? If you're teens, he likes you. If you're adults, he's an idiot. Good luck with boys... you'll need it!
2007-02-09 17:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by heather j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he definitely likes you!
2007-02-09 17:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may like you but he's so immature that he doesnt know how to approach you
2007-02-09 17:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, i am pretty sure that he does.
2007-02-09 17:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Monica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋