It's half term and im away on valentines. I called my bf this evening and asked if we could meet. Stuff's been pretty crap between us recently (not like arguing or anything, just not much contact) but i recon it's just a phase. We didn't talk much... Neither of us said anything about valentines. We'll probably meet next weekend and go iceskating or something. We usually get on really well with sparks flying but I always let my bad winter blues get in the way of our happiness. I want to re-ignite the spark but I'm not sure how and valentine's seems to make it worse coz it just adds pressure. Any suggestions?
2007-02-09 09:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummmmmm.........Mmmmmm.......
There's a reason most babies are born in the 8th 9th and 10 th month of the year.
Maybe iceskating would be great too.
2007-02-09 09:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it style of feels to me which you're the two fending off the priority and attempting to forget approximately related to the fact which you're drifting aside. There nevertheless seems to be some existence there, although, in case you may the two be bothered to reignite the spark that attracted you. do no longer permit satisfaction get interior the way - why no longer ring him and advise which you the two circulate out or circulate away for some days for some exciting. i does no longer use the be conscious "romantic" at this point considering, of course, romance is at a stale-mate, use the be conscious "exciting" truly that gets his pastime. advise some thing you're the two attracted to ... a action picture on the cinema then a stable meal, or a weekend in an exciting city (like tub, as an occasion, plenty to work out and do) - some thing that gets you the two being collectively and conversing (very needed, to maintain the communique up) and taking section in collectively the comparable issues like the factors of interest and sounds and studies. you will desire to have issues in worry-loose, and this would build up some. Then, in case you prefer, chosen it sluggish heavily to point that issues between you have long gone somewhat cool - possibly you're working too complicated, iciness blues, etc., and make some destiny plans like a trip. are not getting all heavy on him yet you will desire to make plans collectively - in case you haven't any longer any destiny plans, then you have not have been given a destiny relationship. stable success, do try this, wish it helps.
2016-09-28 21:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use valentines to put the spark back! Plan something romantic but fun gor you to do together.... How about getting your photos done together, followed by a nice meal & a bit of quality time?
2007-02-09 09:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by ATP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bright Bright Lights!! The brighter the better, this will definately improve your mood. Then meet him for some hot cocoa, build a snowman!! Then a little nookie, and you're set!!!
Light therapy works!!
2007-02-09 09:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about taking a break for this valentines and celebrating you.
i am doing that.
it isnt my first and i am hoping it is my last but when you celebrate with someone who is worth it and special ( being yourself) then it just gets better all around.
2007-02-09 09:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋