and please dont tell me to be myself... cuz ITS NOT WORKING!!
2007-02-09 08:39:54 · 44 answers · asked by limey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be outgoing, flirt, say hey, just be cool, but i kno u didnt want neone to say this! but u gotta be urself, butttt, u dont have to totally b urself tho, mayb u can find another part in u thats new n awesome, n flirty,or u could just create that part of urself! haha, good luck!!!
2007-02-09 08:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, from a gurl point of view and soical butterfly that I am, you should just flirt, it a natural thing heck sometimes you won't even realize that you did. Its all about the chemistry, do NOT try to hard, you going to come off as a s*** or werido.
Dress good, pay attention to your image, what are best asset, and what you can do to make more noticeable. Do NOT have to dress like a cat got a hold of your clothes. Ex. if your eyes are one of your best assets then wear black eyeliner to make them stand out. Your clothes should make you feel good about yourself. Dress Sexy but do leave something for imagination. Link below is an outfit you can try. Look at the girl with the black outfit.
2007-02-09 08:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by MP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try to look your very best. Be well groomed at all times. Even in those sweats and jeans, you can look really cute if you're groomed. Find out what your best features are and focus on them. Be friendly. Smile a lot. Don't give a guy the idea that you're lonely without him or need a man to make you happy and complete. You can flirt without appearing to be ""EASY"". Remember to be yourself most of all. Love yourself or no one else will either. Don't be the girl who trys too hard and makes the guy feel pressured to call. If he doen't call it's his loss.
2007-02-09 08:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kentucky Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress a bit more girly, that definitely catches a guy's eye. Be a little bit more spontaneous, and confident. If you like a guy, dont be all shy and expect him to make the first move, straight up go and spark up a conversation with him, that'll show him that you're confident and outgoing. Just try being more outgoing and be really optimistic around them, after all guys don't really like sad, pessimistic girls. Hope that helps!
2007-02-09 08:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a bar. Get up on the bar. Take off all your clothes. You have their attention. Now, if that's not what you are looking for I suggest you smile and when he looks at you look away and then back. Also if you have a guy in mind find out what he likes and learn it too. Of course he should learn what you like, but, he didn't ask this question
2007-02-09 08:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be anything but urself. if u pretend to be someone else, then they're really not falling for YOU! plz dont be all loud and flirty cuz that'll make them think ur either trying too hard or crazy. and just plz plz plz dont dress easy cuz that'll make girls hate you and guys like your body, not you. so just be yourself and the guy that likes the real you will eventually come along.
2007-02-09 08:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Argiiii. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you don't want me to say be yourself, but that's what I believe you should do, then just don't worry about guys noticing you and maybe a guy will come along. You shouldn't worry so much, a guy will come. Sorry I said be yourself it's just what I believe, If you be something your not you might do something stupid or get hurt. Be patient!
2007-02-09 08:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Des♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im not expert but...
First off
- you say it isn't working being yourself it probs is but they are shy to make the first move.
- Whatever you do don't be somebody else trying to show off it won't work.
- If you like somebody don't rush it take it as it comes and if a chemical bond seems to be happening the magic will happen.
Good Luck.
2007-02-09 08:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by >>Rock God<< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideas:
1. Take off burqa
2. Smile
3. Act confident
4. Show some skin
5. That's about it
2007-02-09 08:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want to hear be yourself then i don't know what to tell you. honestly, thats what you have to do. you dont want to have to act like someone else to get a guy to like you, cause then they dont really like you, they like someone else. sure you can maybe flirt a little more than you usually do or w/e, but you want someone to like you for who you are and not for somebody else. if you feel lonely and like nobody likes you, give it time you will find somebody that has some of the same interests, and a guy that you can hang out wit and act like yourself at the same time. i'm sorry, i know that you didn't want to hear that, but that's the truth. stay true to yourself, and make people like you for who YOU are! good luck!
2007-02-09 08:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by *sue* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋