its been 2 months now he dumped me on msn and we haven't spoken since and although i hate him for being a coward and not breaking up with me to my face, i still care for him but i want to get over him! i do my best to avoid him but we go to the same college a college which i have 15 months left of!
When we do see each other we never make any eye contact, well i don't anyway but today i saw him watching me from across the street. he didn't see me looking due to me wearing a hoodie but how did he know it was me? i saw him in the corner of my eye and just carried on walking but seeing his face again only for a second brought back the memories and it really hurt, that and the fact this was the first time in months i had seen him look at me the way he once did. PLEASE HELP why does he now look at me does he not know that it just makes it harder for me?has anyone been in the same boat how did you cope with seeing them??
2007-02-09 08:37:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So let me get this straight, you care for a man who doesn't have the common decency to break up with you face-to-face.
So when you list what kind of man you are attracted to you -- you tell everyone, "Girl, I like cowards!"
If not, that is the example you are setting. If you like a man with confidence --> where is that confidence when he is breaking up with you.
He is a wuss.
You are the best example of how the world is supposed to treat you. If you fixate on someone who obviously doesn't respect you enough to treat with common decency, then you are the fool!
Not him.
He has sized you up and you can either live up to his notion or flip the script and get the courage and strength to let go of YESTERDAY.
God supplies you with 86,400 increments of time each day to experience something new. We call them seconds.
Don't waste ANOTHER second on him. He has just missed out on a good thing and you have to open the door for someone else to come in.
But how can you let someone in when you are still clinging on to him. Release him. Ignore him. Forgive his foolishness and folly.
You forgive him by NOT LOOKING BACK!
Life is as easy as A, B, C!
Ask for a new man.
Believe you deserve a better man.
Create opportunities to met better men ==> join a volunteer organization and stop looking for narcissistic men in all the wrong places.
2007-02-09 08:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have made a big mistake like yourself by dating guy that was way to close for comfort.I use to date my neighbor but he was my childhood lover and we dated through our teens and loved each other even before. It was from the beginning of the con fussing butterflies in the stomach. He was the first guy I ever liked before I could even understand what I was feeling. That was a really hard break up because he lived right opposite my house and use to sneak around a lot without the parents even catching on. We started dating when we were 9 & 12 and ended at the ages of 17 & 21 and when we did it was harder because he use to have a lot of girls that I didn't lke coming around his house.
Night after night I would be sitting at my window looking into his bedroom to see when he gets home eventually I decided that it was time to pack my tears away and make myself happy.
You are doing just what I did you depended on him for everything which even includes happiness. You have to make yourself happy. The only way to get over this guy is instead of running away confront him and tell him even if you are lying through your teeth yell him that you forgive him and you don' t want to be a stranger. I think that it is immature for you guys to stop talking and you should stop stressing over this guy either because he is very immature and keep it in mind that women mature faster than men.
Key rules make yourself happy, hang out with friends and only when you are ready find another relationship.
2007-02-09 08:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hurting because you want to be with him, get back together with him. If you are hurting because you are upset with him and never want to see him again, try your best to avoid him and get a new boyfriend and forget about your ex. And remember only you can get yourself down. You have more control over your emotions than you would like to think. So be positive and move on.
2007-02-09 08:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by markbigmanabell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a different route to class. Or go at a different time. Leave 15 minutes earlier to class than the usual time.
MJ
2007-02-09 08:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make it through these classes, and the next semester, try and be sure to take different classes. Good luck!
2007-02-09 08:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The boy is owned, no you mustn't get with him, because your friends were given him. I dont quite comprehend a thanks to get over it even as youre seeing him well-known i wager discover yet another boy to love on
2016-11-26 19:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, remebmer he dumped you. his loss not yours. go hang out with friends or meet another guy who will care for you
2007-02-09 08:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he idnt know it was u
2007-02-09 08:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋