I'm seeing this guy been with for about 2 yrs. that is really rude sometime. He drives a truck and drag races. I go on a lot of trips with him but sometime he'll just come out of the blues tells me get my bags get out the truck and walk. I break down then he tells me he's sorry and I don't know how to take it. He says I don't know how to take a joke but that's not a joke. What should I do?
2007-02-09 08:30:28 · 17 answers · asked by LynnS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's really messed up. i know its hard, but i really think you should see someone else, because that's way passed being a joke. he sounds like a redneck, and i'm sure you can do better
2007-02-09 08:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because you didn't get the right man.I plan on driving truck myself and my bro already is.That don't mean all truckers are pricks just the ones beaten by there daddys.My question is this, how long did you know this dick before you shacked up with him?you may have been able to see the signs earlier.If you bring a good but not stupid friend with you on dates they can see things you can't sometimes or be jealous and try to break you up.You need to find another guy spend more time being out of his rig and if he stalks you ,you have to go to court and get a restraining order against him or lawenforcement washes there hands of the situation and refuses to help.
2007-02-09 16:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel. Tell him that when he is rude if takes away from your relationship. When you are negative you attract the negative. When you are positive you attract the positive. If he really loves you he will not do these things that hurt you so much. Tell him that you love him and if he doesn't change the negative that you will have to find someone who really cares about you. You do not have to take this, if he continues there are a lot of fish in the sea and you want to be and give love, does he? Ask him if this is what he really wants and see what his answer is. If its negative, move on, you deserve to be treated and loved as a person, take care Heather
2007-02-09 16:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.
A-N-G-E-R M-A-N-A-G-E-M-E-N-T issues.
Are you waiting for the day that he will throw you out of the house instead of his truck?
If you like him enough to be his personal doormat, then do what you are doing and you will keep on getting what you get.
If you want a change, it's time to rewrite the script and say,
"Hmmmm. It's my birthright to be treated with dignity and respect and I don't have to take this crap. I'm moving on like my middle name is U-Haul. And follow through."
If you don't believe what I just said, then you can't say it to him.
Life is easy as A.B.C ==> Ask, Believe, and Create.
You asked on Yahoo! Answers!
You must Believe you deserve better.
You must Create the reality you want by taking action instead of wishing.
When he apologizes, and he will, you need to comfort him with all of your heart and tell him that he needs to fix his anger management for HIM before he is READY for you.
And tell him, "I understand and I will be here for you when you DO YOU!"
You have given your man an order and he will either fill the order or refuse to treat you right and find another mendicant.
This is you owning your life and dictating the expectations upfront.
If you want to live by "hidden rules", you will continue to get hot messes.
2007-02-09 16:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get away! i'm sure truck driving is a time consuming occupation, but I am a drag racer... and I, for one, would love for my significant other to come with me on racing trips and such. If he doesn't feel the same way, he is NOT worth your time. Esp. if he makes you walk! Next time, RUN... far far away!
2007-02-10 16:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by RaceGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really makes you get out of his truck with your bags? Thats messed up! Leave him deffinately. DO NOT sacrifice your own happiness for someone elses...EVER your the only one who can truly make you happy. Plus I'd be scared if I were you, if makes you do little things now that are crazy (kicking you out of his car) what happend if you spend most of your life with him. is he going to go completely crazy? Is he Bi-polar...Get out before your in over your head...you'll feel happier, relieved. Being single is fun for the most part!! Best of luck dear! Keep your head up!
2007-02-09 16:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by sarajanicew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn' know how to treat a girl, I'm in the same deal. My guy says Come over here and give me some P***y. I have tried to change him for 3 years to be politer, but it never works. They have no respect for you if you tell them and they know you don't like it.
2007-02-09 16:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by padros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid, don't let any guy treat you like that. I am an outsider, therefore I dont know deeply about your relationship, but theres probablly something thats telling you to stay with him for 2 years. Either you talk to him, tell him how you really feel, and if he truly cares for you, he would think about your feelings before he does something. If he still does it, moving on is the best resort, dont let anyone disrespect you.
2007-02-09 16:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sit down and talk to him about the way he is treating you. If he truly understands your feelings, he will change his attitude and respect you more. If he doesn't, it would be best to dump him and reevaluate what kind of man you want. There are plenty of nice guys around.
2007-02-09 16:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by sleepy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you would come on here and talk about us like this infront of total strangers! Now get off the computer before I give you a taste of my backhand!
2007-02-09 16:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋