2007-02-09 08:26:49 · 45 answers · asked by funk4lfe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep in mind that she played me on purpose because she said i was nice and easy to take advantage of. She would do stuff like go out with other guys when i'd be doing work but I always would try to spend time with her. I never played any girl, I'm the nicest person and i know i didn't deserve that.
2007-02-09 08:48:47 · update #1
it makes you look pathetic. never let a girl know you are hurt man, don't give her the satisfaction..just date one of her friends.
2007-02-09 08:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by jsha2424 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is childish, time wasting and you will end up getting to the same level like a person that broke your heart. Personally maybe i would of started something like that, but then again if is a lot better revenge for the person that broke your heart to see all happy, smiling everyday like you just dropped a load off and dating again. Trust me its the best revenge especially if you say heartbreaking was done on purpose. Thats pretty much means your actions after heartbreaking are vital and a center of attention to that person so you have to make sure you are on top of your GAME and you are doing better then ever. Look on their face usually is PRICELESS!!!
2007-02-09 08:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! but please think about it, all you are going to attract is all these people who are all putting down the person who bagged them and threw their heart in the ocean of sharks after chumming for a month. your only resolve is to as quickly as possible get into a new relationship to take your mind off your loss. Get into three relationships or even four keep as busy as possible surrounding your self with positive people and forget about her or him just understand that you need to address what ever the one (or more)
thing(s) it was that lost her or him and you need to make a conscious effort to make the habit (if it's a habit) go away so when you find the next girl or boy friend you don't loose them on the same technicality. always try to improve yourself by learning from your mistakes. We all make (have made) them no one is infallible. Just remember to give more than you take. It certainly separates the takers from the givers they become easy to identify.....
2007-02-09 08:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't wrong for having negative emotions, it's part of being human, but don't let your emotions control your actions. The fact that you are asking this question implies that you already know what is right. Always do what is right. Do you really want to look back on your life and see it has been spent on revenge, and hateful actions?
People hurt other people for really stupid reasons, and you may never really know why this person truly broke your heart. You don't want to look back and find that you waisted your energy on them after they hurt you. It only leads to you hurting yourself later on because of that person that hurt you.
Take it slow, think clearly, and listen to your heart.
2007-02-09 08:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. The longer you prolong this anger and hurt, the more it will affect you. It won't make you happier or a better person to put this person in a bad light. They'll get their just punishment some time by somebody else. Move on as a lesson learned.
2007-02-09 08:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Universe will return whatever you put out there.
You have started a hate group which means that you have just placed an order to the Chef. Upstairs.
Do not be shocked when you get a silver platter of hate returned back to you.
It is the law of the universe.
2007-02-09 08:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, it's called karma - seeking revenge and hate will only bring more vengenance and hate into your life. Be the bigger person and learn from their bad example - treat people with honesty and kindness.
And btw - heartbreakers are usually guilty of stupidity, not malicious intent, so perhaps they didn't mean to hurt you "on purpose." Give people the benefit of the doubt, just as you would want to be granted that benefit.
2007-02-09 08:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not every womans intention to break your heart, if you start a hate group you are contributing to negativity. Negativity brings more negativity, positivity brings positivity, what do you want? do you want to be hateful your whole life or do you want to be a person and a man that is caring and loves your partner? the decision is yours, but in my opinion you are just making it more difficult for people to love you. Take care Heather
2007-02-09 08:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'd quite happily start one for my 2 ex husbands,
Only cos they like beating their wife and children
But i'm laughing now cos they are nothing, one's an alcoholic, the other is a druggie,
While I'm sat in my 4 bedroom house, my 3 lovely kids and a brand new car- I worked for all of it,
They can't pay for a packet of nappies
One day I'm going to be a lawyer
2007-02-09 08:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe it is. Our lives should not revolve around revenge and payback but focus on what is right. Whether we believe it was right or not for this individual to break our heart this doesnt mean it is right for us to get back at the individual. I know it doesnt seem fair at first but believe me I speak from experience. I got my heart broken more than once and the best thing to do is move on and continue living.
2007-02-09 08:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by jrolao77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, becuse you will regret it later hate leads to remorse for most people. Not now but 3 years down the road when you find a new love and your heart is ok you will find forgiveness. Plyus you will only bring yourself down by trying to bring them down.
Honorable foe takes his loss, dismisses revenge and learns from it.
2007-02-09 08:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by chucky w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋