It's been really hard for me. I've never been rejected before so I'm scared. I think he likes another girl because it seems like hes flirting with her but I can't really tell. My previous question didn't get alot of answers so I'm looking for a little more advice. Two days ago, I saw my friend get rejected, which made me more nervous but it really hasn't gotten around yet. PLEASE leave all the advice you can even if you think its bad! please just help me!
Cassie-14
2007-02-09 08:23:05 · 5 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok,, i'm almost in the same situation but i would say the safest solution would be for the guy to be asking the girl out. please understand what i'm saying, don't go for the guy if all it is, is that you like him a little. that may not turn good. but get to know him really good and he may just decide he really likes you and ask you out.
i don't know how to word things right. i'm a christian and i had someone at one time but he wasn't so serious as i thought he was. as i am now, i have put my trust in God and i don't want to worry about all that for myself anymore. sure i still have crushes but i don't want to get too close if it's not the man the Lord has for me. sorry if this isn't what you're looking for.
BLESSINS
2007-02-09 08:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by esorelate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it, u will never know until you try. ill tell u my experience. in the 8th grade i had a crush on a guy and i asked him out, and he said that he was already going out with someone. he was very nice about the whole thing, he said he likes me but he's in a relationship but would still like to be friends with me. i was kinda crushed but i got over it and i still talk to him till this day. my point is even though i was rejected, i learned a valuable lesson and never ever regreted having the courage to ask him out. I WAS SO PROUD OF MYSELF LOL. hope this helps
2007-02-09 17:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he wants to do something at the weekend, if he says sorry i dont like you that way or he's seeing someone then just say back that you was only asking him as a friend then he's the one glowing red, not you ! but i hope he says yes and things work out for you ! good luck !!!!!!
2007-02-09 16:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is key pretend that you have nothing to lose if he say no then just walk away remember you have nothing to lose and since you have never been rejected before what makes you think you would be rejected now. i belive if your confident there is nothing that could stop you.just talk to him have interesting conversation and take it from their.
2007-02-09 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Victor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask me and I'll go out with you.What would you like to do?
2007-02-09 16:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋