i am starting divorce proceedings against my ex wife next monyh. been with gf for 2 yrs. does this make a difference?
2007-02-09 07:57:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
nothing to split though, nothing at all. just a case of signing papers
2007-02-09 08:01:15 · update #1
I understand what you mean when you say "ex wife" even though the divorce isn't final. I had an "ex husband" of my own because we weren't together for about 10 years and the divorce itself simply wasn't final so i would disregard the thumbs up and the comment that i see was made about the statement you made.
It should only make a difference if you feel it is a moral issue to either of you. For myself i was engaged before the divorce was final. We were engaged for 3 years and in that 3rd year i filed for divorce and made it final and about 6 months later i got married. As far as children are concerned i personally would have waited until the divorce was final only because i already had a child that was 12 and she would have been asking all kinds of questions. But if you have no children right now i don't see how this could be a moral issue at all.
Just my opinion.
2007-02-09 13:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, only you can answer that question. Kids are awesome, and its amazing how much even someone who thinks they dont want any falls in love with them the moment theyre born.
It seems to me that you had a hard time being committed to your last relationship. With kids you cant divorce them, you're responsible for them for 18 years, and you will continue to provide all sorts of support to them for the rest of your natural life. Its not something to take lightly.
I'd wait until you're able to show some real commitment abilities, make sure this woman is right for you, make sure you can be better committed to each other than your last relationship... kids need stability, and you want to make sure you can provide them the best you have to offer :)
Beyond all that, not being able to use whole words to ask questions is really a red flag. The biggest thing you can ever do for yourself to open up your future (and provide the best for your family) is know and practice good grammar and communication skills. The world is your oyster with those.
2007-02-09 16:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would start the ball rolling.Your wife may divorce you for adultery.
2007-02-10 04:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you're starting a divorce you don't HAVE an ex wife.. and depending on your state, having a girlfriend and a wife can really screw you over in court.... Good luck, you'll need it.
2007-02-09 16:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by maccrew6 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋