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She is my niece, it was benign in October, then operated on twice and is now malignant and very active. She is just married 18 months, and is now having radiotherapy and expensive chemo not on the NHS. We are a Christian family and believe in a loving God.

2007-02-09 07:49:47 · 16 answers · asked by Norah B 4 in Health Diseases & Conditions Cancer

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I believe that you should prayer with what is in your heart. God is there listening all the time. it seems like he isn't there ,but he is. He doesn't always answer are prayers the way we think he should. He and only he knows the outcome. I believe we are all put here on earth for a reason. We may not know what it is and may never know. Some just complete their work here sooner than others. I had a daughter pass away at 9 years of age. I don't understand how he can take away someone so young,but I believe she had completed her life the way God had wanted. She knew she was dying and she had accepted it. She had even picked out her own grave site. She died just days after doing that. I thought she was doing good. She had been very active up until the day she died. She was at the hospital less tan 24 hours before she died. So you see there is never a wrong or right way to pray. You just have to pray and believe that God knows what he is doing.

2007-02-13 04:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by ifi 1 · 0 0

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2016-11-03 00:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Dont search the Bible for a prayer, sit down and TALK to God about this. Im in a strong Christian family too and you must already know you have a relationship with God and can talk to him on that level..

God bless and I wish your niece the best..

2007-02-09 07:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0 1

As a Christian, you've already established a belief in a just and loving God.

Instead of praying (God already knows and it's a fallacy to think that he waits by the "phone" for people to pray), be there to support her and her husband. Do what you can for the family.

Prayer is not the answer. Being a loving, kind, and helpful human being is.

Every minute that you spend in prayer instead of working to do what you, on Earth, is a minute wasted.

2007-02-09 07:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 7 · 0 3

Pray that His will be done. His will may be to bring her home early, or to keep her here until she is old. It's hard, but it's important to pray for His will instead of our own.

God Bless!

2007-02-09 09:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by LP 2 · 0 0

I am going to be honest here. I am not trying to be hurtful.

Your focus is in the wrong place. "How should you pray?". You make it sound as though there is a wrong way. The best way to make a difference is to go visit your friend and get her mind off of it.

Actions speak louder than prayers.

If you are looking for a little inspiration, get a nice god fairing ringtone from http://www.Christian-Ringtones.org. That way everytime your cell phone rings, you are reminded of your niece in an uplifting way.

It's not how you pray, it's what you do and how often she is in your thoughts.

2007-02-09 07:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Geiger 2 · 0 3

Wow, not only is He a loving God, but He's a healer. Read Isaiah 53 over her. God promise us at least 70 years of life. Tell her that. Also Ephesians 1:17-23

[For I always pray to] the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, that He may grant you a spirit of wisdom and revelation [of insight into mysteries and secrets] in the [deep and intimate] knowledge of Him,

18By having the eyes of your heart flooded with light, so that you can know and understand the hope to which He has called you, and how rich is His glorious inheritance in the saints (His set-apart ones),

19And [so that you can know and understand] what is the immeasurable and unlimited and surpassing greatness of His power in and for us who believe, as demonstrated in the working of His mighty strength,

20Which He exerted in Christ when He raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His [own] right hand in the heavenly [places],

21Far above all rule and authority and power and dominion and every name that is named [above every title that can be conferred], not only in this age and in this world, but also in the age and the world which are to come.

22And He has put all things under His feet and has appointed Him the universal and supreme Head of the church [a headship exercised throughout the church],(A)

23Which is His body, the fullness of Him Who fills all in all [for in that body lives the full measure of Him Who makes everything complete, and Who fills everything everywhere with Himself].


What a great position you are in right now, not to see your niece in the condition she's currently in, but in the postion to go to the Father in her stead. Did you see what verse 21 says, every name that is named, that's means CANCER is included. Jesus is above that name. He said I came that you may have life and more abundantly. So what that tells me is He wants your niece to live. Have the faith of a mustard seed for her. I'll lift her name up to the throne room myself. Because He said if two or three are gathered together in my name, I'll be in the midst. So We stand in agreement of her healing. Take time to get healing scriptures and read over her, ya'll pray together. Labor with her in this. God said the harvest in plentious, but the laborers are few. Hold her up in prayer and I believe in due season you'll see the power of God move over her life. Email when she does. NParrott24@yahoo.com so I can praise God right along with you guys family. Be Blessed, and encouraged, and know this that silly devil is already defeated, when Christ rose. Our God has all power so believe that the same power that resurrect Christ is going to be the same power that heal her body. Love Ya!!

2007-02-09 08:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nish 4 · 0 1

I just wanted to share Romans 8:26 and 27 with you. It says, "In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. 27And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will."

I hope that encourages you.

2007-02-09 07:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0 2

All you can do is pray for her and her family. You can't imagine the fear that she and her husband are going through. Pray for him also. He is going through hell, just as she is. The only difference is that he is going to have to live through it. She may live, I have met people that have survived brain cancer, but they are very lucky people.

2007-02-09 07:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

there is no certain way u should pray
just ask jesus for his help and he will return ur call
i always know that he is there for me even without asking for it
u just have to want it from ur heart
just assk him truly and faithfully
with so much trust in him
u know...we have a saint who lived in egypt....he had cancer too and he died of it but when he had an operation in london he had a picture of virgin mary and many people recovered for the sake of her......his name is father Beshooy Kamel....i ask for his help
that man is a saint
call him and he will pray for u too

2007-02-09 08:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by bottos b 1 · 0 2

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