I had a date with this guy and we seemed to have hit it off.We talked until the restaurant staff gave us "the eye".He walked me to my door and we shared a kiss.He told me we have to do it again soon and I told him that that would be great.I haven't heard from him today though.Is it too soon to assume he isn't interested?
2007-02-09 07:46:38 · 14 answers · asked by sunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys think they should wait a couple of days for the phone call. One day we will teach them, not to wait around... Just call now.
He does like you. He will call, just give him the chance. If you have his number. Call, or text him. A text to say thanks for the date is always a great ice breaker.
2007-02-09 07:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how many days have passed since the date! If it's been a week or more, I'd say not interested. But you said haven't heard from him "today," so I'm assuming it was more recent than that. Don't give up hope! You know men, they have to play the waiting game to let you know that they are not that interested (even though they really are). Try not to wait by the phone. If you want to play the game just like he is, don't answer when he DOES call, and don't call him back. Let him wonder...will drive him nuts and he'll be wrapped around your little finger. Good luck!
2007-02-09 15:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the date was yesterday its too early to tell. Tomorrow give him a call and say I enjoyed myself and hope we can do it again. If you still don't hear from him then don't sweat it, he may be busy. If you really like him wait a few more days and if still no response let it go. Just don't bug him, some men are just slow like that but appreciate it when a woman can make the first or next move.
2007-02-09 15:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by ahottmess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some more time. Maybe he's trying to work a new relationship in to his life. Men sometimes take up to a week or two after a date to call again. Just keep busy with your own life, date around, enjoy being single. Don't waste time wondering what could happen!
2007-02-09 15:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Leia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,thats just the way a guy does things.We have to play it cool and give it a day or two till we call u again.This is perfectly normal and u shouldnt worry bout it.A date with good conversation and a goodnight kiss sounds lovely and I wouldnt see why he would tell u those things if he werent interested.Hes probably at home dying to call u but its the rule of men not to look desperate and call the next day.
God Bless.
2007-02-09 15:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on dating. If he is interested he'll be in touch. If not then what the hell!
If your worry is more than insecurity and this is really the one then you will need to risk embarrasment/rejection and persue it some more.
Either, go for it and what the hell! Or persue it like a tiger and what the hell!
What is there to loose but time and/or pride!
2007-02-09 15:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by interested_party 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends when you have the date.... from experience guys sometime like to wait up to a week or so to call you...
i know because they do not like to seem desperate ... i really dint think that he would suggest to do it again if he really did not want to.
2007-02-09 15:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it might even take a couple days or a week before he gets in contact with you again, but he will.
2007-02-09 15:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a day? Give it some time.
Also, if you're interested, why not you call him first?
What are you waiting for? Life is too short.
2007-02-09 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by eselgeist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's way too soon.
IF you get paranoid then he will run. Let nature take it's course.
2007-02-09 15:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋