My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. we don't live in the same state but we love eachother. I can't fulfill his needs and i know he has wants. He cheated on me and got a girl pregnant. He doesn't think the baby's his what should i do? remeber he's my life and i'd kill for him.
2007-02-09 07:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by Mz.Amazing! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally I'd say...Run PeeWee RUN.
Away from this man as fast as you can.
But he cheated on you and...
YOU KILL FOR HIM? Are you nuts...
What is your plan to "Whack" the pregnant girl he knocked up?
Tell a cop the way you feel, you'll get yourself a new address for sure then. the way your talkin you belong IN JAIL YOU NUT.
Get some therapy and some self esteem while your at it...
Call Dr. Phil.
And for God's sake don't breed with the boy...
Good Luck You Crazy Nut
2007-02-09 07:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Geno The Colorist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
err.. you shouldn't justify his cheating on you with the fact that you're far away and "can't fulfill his needs". Don't you have needs too? Have you cheated on him?
Anyway, first of all you've got to know for certain if it's his or not... cause if it's not then you have nothing to worry about.
If it is his, then there's no problem anyway. I mean, if you love him that much what's bothering you? Would you love him any less? Wouldn't you be involved in his baby's life? I think you have to be a little more specific as to what's bothering you.
2007-02-09 16:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me tell you, He needs to be a man first. He needs to step up to the plate Get to child support enforcement agency and get a DNA test done, if the child is his then he needs to start paying child support and be a father to the child.this means that he don't move far from his child. Then he needs to get a court ordered share parenting plan in place this all costs money. Mine cost about 19,000 dollars. Then I was ordered to pay 125.00 a week plus 7.00 handling fee. Children costs a lot more than that.Then to make the relationship work you need to move there, giving up family Friends job social nights out with other people.You need to remember one thing its only a child and you will have to deal with his girlfriend the rest of your life, or at least till the child is 18 years old. Even now its still not over you may have grand Babbie's a wedding, graduation, college, puberty, and the list goes on and on.
2007-02-09 16:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's NOT your life. The fact that you say you would kill for him is a scary statement. You sound unstable. He cheated on you, got someone else pregnant - and you're defending him? Can you say "co-dependent" ?? Get some help, before you end up serviing life in some state facility !!
2007-02-09 15:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the fact that he's your life and you'd kill for him... how are you going to feel if it is his baby and this baby becomes part of his life? Everytime you look at this child are you going to think "this baby is the result of an affair?" I know I would, and tell me how much could he possibly love you to have an affair to begin with? I think you should move on and find someone who is worth your time.
2007-02-09 15:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by househunting506 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off you should never love someone more than you love yourself. Second you should move on with ur life. He has made a baby and needs to be a father to it.
2007-02-09 15:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
~You need a hobby and a boyfriend who is local. Long distance relationships don't work.
He should get a paternity test to find out for sure if the baby is his. If it is his and you truly love him, you love his baby too.~
2007-02-09 15:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes not yet married with the mother of this baby then fight ur love and accept that he have a baby..
2007-02-09 15:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let him go chances are it is his baby and most likely he is telling you what you want to here.
2007-02-09 15:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess, Your about 14.....He is a loser and you shouldn't do anything except find a BF in your our town...
2007-02-09 15:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋