What are some good conversation starters?
2007-02-09 07:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by jeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT talk about other girls, your car or bike, or your workouts. DO ask her about her family but do NOT make comments or agree that they are jerks. Do NOT mention to her that you just got out of jail/detention/rehab. DO tell her that you think she's a great person to be with. Do NOT talk about your Star Tek figurine collection. DO mention that your dad owns a shoe store and you can get discounts. (That one is just for laughs!!)
Actually, be yourself, be polite, ask if she's seen any good movies lately. If she hasn't seen a movie since she left the convent, ask her where she'd like to visit if she could go anywhere in the world. Any answer she gives leads to much conversation about food, music, travel, dreams, hopes, people...Good luck and PS - every female alive likes to hear "Hey, your hair is really cute like that.".
2007-02-09 07:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about her interests, and tell her about yours. Cast about for a subject that interests both of you. You can start off talking about food or coffee (whatever you might be having on your date), and other subjects are sure to come up.
The best way to make an impression on the first date is by keeping your hands to yourself.
2007-02-09 07:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let HER take control of the Conversation. Let HER choose what to discuss. Let HER do most of the talking. You show her that her opinions, in very interesting. Even ask about some of the things that she says. The first Date, is purely a Talkfest. Take it slow. and don't rush anything. Let us know how it goes, Tiger!
2007-02-09 07:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be talkative. Be cool, casual, calm. Be outgoing. Laugh and have a good time. Talk about your interests and ask about hers. Talk about your families. Whatever you do do not bring up old relationships...you can talk about it if you two grow in a relationship together.
2007-02-09 07:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by bellebelle113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her don't be self absorbed.she needs to know you are there and not somewhere else.Don't be staring at her breast ,lips or daydreaming.As the movie Hitch said be in the present . And be yourself. ask question about what she likes, dislikes.
2007-02-09 07:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by E Paul M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies, Music, is a good place to start, after that everything should flow. After a few dates tell her you like to use your tongue :P j/k
2007-02-09 07:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't impress her, just pretend she is a friend and get to know her.
2007-02-09 07:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by styler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Either she will or wont like you. But if you try to be someone that you aren't then if it can backfire on you later.
2007-02-09 07:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by tchem75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...compliment her, but dont over do it...just listen to what she says... i guess some guys say to repeat what she says to show that you are listening....and if you know anything about her, use it to influence your date and where you go to...and the last thing be honest
2007-02-09 07:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Hilary M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her a lovely present like red roses
2007-02-09 07:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋