I was seeing this guy at work for a while......after we stopped seeing each other.....he got a gf....I got a bf......but yet he stills comes in my office every day or so....I work for his boss...so sometimes he has no choice....but most the time a phone call would do or he says he is just here to hang out....take a break....I have been trying to avoid going to his building....why does he keep coming here.....it always seemed to me....when you stopped seeing someone....it is kinda easier to avoid the other one to avoid conflict or hurt feelings.....not that it ended badly.....it just ended....was just curious on some guys thoughts on this matter.....is this strange to anyone else???
2007-02-09 07:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by kirtleysgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is all good......but it has been months now....days have come and gone....and have tried being the "jerk"....etc.....but nothing seems to sway????
2007-02-09 07:42:01 · update #1
since it didn't end badly maybe he feels you are still a friend. and since you haven't told him to stop it he probably figures it ok..
2007-02-09 07:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by samshel1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either he still likes you, or he's cool just being friends and hanging out with you is better than sitting alone in the breakroom. but myabe you are feeling odd becasue you still like him, and having him around makes you uncomfortable becasue you are afrai of getting too close to him now that you have a bf. otherwise you would be ok just chatting with him at work. as long as he's not hitting on you, he's probably just bored and want to chat. no biggie..i think you might be the nervous one :)
2007-02-09 15:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Angeleyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will past in a few days just try and stay clear of him.
2007-02-09 15:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normal it'll pass
2007-02-09 15:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋