how do i get him back?

Question

i was with this lad for a year and a half and i really love him. just before new years eve he split up with me out of the blue said we werent getting along. he was crying and everything so i dont even know why he did it. hes ignoring me now and i dont know how to get through to him with out putting the pressure on. what should i do to make him realise his mistake and come back to me

Answer 1

His loss babe, he seems to have his own issues to deal with, crying upon leaving shows he cares for you but dosnt mean he wants a relationship with you. If you really wana show him what he is missing, do your own thing, be sucessfull, get on with your life, show him u dont need him to function. At the end of the day let him go, if he loves you enuff he will *** back to you, if he dosnt he wasnt worth it in the 1st place

Answer 2

the point here is he broke up with you.
There is nothing that WILL make him come back to you.
so all you can do is hope he realises his mistake and comes crawling back to you.
you might like to try and write him and ask him why he broke up with you. when i say write i mean a letter not an email or a text message, but plain old fashioned paper and pen, posted to his address.
though really why you want him back when he dumped you is a mystery.
you would be better off moving on to someone who will love and treat you like you want and deserve to be treated.
good luck.
you need to think long and hard what may have been wrong in your relationship, that he may have broken up with you for. could he have been faking the tears etc to make it easier on you, while he has moved on to another girl?

i hope it all works out for the best.

Answer 3

when i was still a young pup at school the same thing happened to me .I spent so much time goin back and forth with him but it really didnt work .Unfortunately it sounds like he's not interested anymore i.e the ignoring u .I left for uni and moved on its been 4 years and im now engaged ,when i go home i run into him sometimes and i cant beleive the time i wasted on him .So i suggest u forget about him and move on find someone else and enjoy being single ,Go out with the girls and just leave it alone ,dont give him the satisfaction of knowing you are still interested.
Good luck
enjoy single life cause its the best time of your life

Answer 4

My advice, ignore him but not in a rude way (slowly show less attention to him)...

Case 1: he still loves you, he'll be drawn by you slowly getting away from him (people don't like this sensation)... people like to be needed by others, especially when they are in love... your action might trigger this kind of reaction

Case 2: if he really doesn't love you anymore, you don't have a choice to move on and you'll be on the wright track already... it's hard, but that's life.

Only my opinion, best of luck

Answer 5

Don't try. If you try to get another boyfriend, he'll find out you're just using him, and miss out on a great guy. He probably has some friends too to tell! And don't get extreme makeovers or anything. That just makes you look as if you were that desparate to have him back. Just be yourself, and he'll probably get mad, because you would look as if you were over him. He might even want you back! Good Luck!
XOXO,
Katherine

Answer 6

you have to let him be
for now that is best
if you push too much
all the time that you invest
will be put to an unnecessary test

give it time as it heals all wounds
i know it hurts a lot right now
it's all you can do really
but move on from this broken vow
this is what you must allow

Answer 7

i think u need to find out exactly waht he means when he says u are not getting along and why was he crying. if he's ignoring u, i think he's making himself clear. he wants nothing to do with u. but since u love him, find a way to speak to him to see if there's any future in the relationship.

Answer 8

There is a saying that has held true time after time. If you love someone set them free, if they come back, they are yours forever, if they don't, they never were.

Give it time, if it's meant to be it will be. Good luck.

Answer 9

when you find him alone tell him you need to talk to him and tell him the problem and get kind of emotionally about it then when you get to the end of it plant him a kiss right on the lips when he least expects it then just walk off and leave him there

hope he finally comes to his senses

Answer 10

i understand you are in love, but he obviously, and i know you dont want to hear this, doesn't want to be with you ... you cannot force someone back with you. is he completely ignoring you? not returning phone calls? texts? ignores you in the street? if so, get over him. he's a jerk.