I have just got out of a relationship' like two days ago, and i loved this girl and we were togehter for a like a year. She's 17 and im 19. Anyways my question I dont like alot of things that she does like giving attitude and having the rebellious attitude to everything that some one says or asks her, she wants to be so mature but yet shes not.
These things bother me and there are alot of small things that she does that get me supper angry.
so one should i keep this relationship off and find someone thats more level or just date around
and two should i try to work things out and maybe get back together with her?
oh yeah this would be our 5th break up in a year!
2007-02-09 07:19:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love this girl, you've got to talk to her. This doesn't mean kiss and make up, this means FIGURE IT OUT. Maybe she's doing this impress you? I don't know, but girls are guilty of wanting to impress guys just as much as guys wanna impress girls. Just find a time, in a neutral place, to talk about why you guys keep breaking up. Tell her that her disrespect really makes you uncomfortable or whatever, and just ask her why she does things the way she does. And please, nothing will end chances with her faster than an accusing tone. Keep it soft, and try to be understanding. Good luck.
2007-02-09 07:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by whoops! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young. Why are you trying to tie yourself down at such a young age. The only way you are going to figure out what you really like and want in a woman is to date different women. You have already seen many qualities in her that you don't like (hell you have broken up 5 times!!) This is basically a high school relationship and now it is time to move on. I am 34 now and have been with my husband for 9 years. We didn't get together until we had dated many different people (and I am not talking about sleeping with everyone that you date-you don't want a disease or a kid from someone you can't stand to be with!) Now I am happily married and all of my friends that rushed into relationships and marriage with the first (hell, even the second or third) person that they dated-their relationships are all in shambles.
Just take your time and date around....and dump the ex!
2007-02-09 07:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that being this you 5th break up for this year and all that stuff you don't like about her, then maybe you should say bye bye for good. Also, you are both so young ,you've just started yor life, so it would be better that you both try to be with someone else or just be apart for a while--that way you can see if your feelings for each other are real and strong enough. I think, distance is the right thing for you(both) now.
2007-02-09 07:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by lily romania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love this girl than try and work things out sounds like you need to be more open with communication, on the other hand does she love you ? if you broke up 5 times in a year maybe try and date other people for a while and really think if you want to stay with someone you can't make some one change the way they are the only way that will happen is if the other person is willing to change.
2007-02-09 07:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the relationship go because you two are not compatible. The small things will keep climbing and turn into big things and look at all that time that was invested into that relationship. Please don't rush into another relationship, let yourself unwind from this one. Do something for yourself, hangout with friends/family, consider a hobby or do some volunteer work.
2007-02-09 07:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to mea it sound like yall are not made for each other if you loved her yeah thats one thang but just think if the thinkgs that she did really bothered you then what about in the future do u really think that you could settle down and have a future with some one that you hated so many things about it sound to me like yall just need so stay separted and you need to find someone who like the same things that you do and some one that u can be u around best of luck
2007-02-09 07:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you wrote, i'd say: "move on" for now. However, it is never that simple. So, in your case, I would:
1) try to weigh positives, negatives and do the math. 2) be as honest as possible with myself and ask: Am i happy with this person (even though our arguments, our different attitudes, ...)?
2007-02-09 07:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said this is your sole decision? She has a say so too you know! Take a step back - stop being so "about yourself" and look at this situation from her point of view. WOW - you have have answered your own question!
2007-02-09 07:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pretty young for serious relationships, I would date around for a while, you have lots of time to meet lots of women.
2007-02-09 07:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have to put up with that.... your young lifes too short tell her how you feel first and if she doesn't change tell her that your moving on. she's probabaly only doing it cause your older and she thinks you want someone that more mature
2007-02-09 07:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋