this guy likes me, and asked me out.i turned him down. and i haven't ever been attracted to him until my sister started hugging up on him. what should i do?
2007-02-09 07:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you lost. you had your chance. the only reason you like him now is 'cause someone else does. support your sister and be a good sport.
2007-02-09 07:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by sevasxes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you care. Do you feel that you made a genuine mistake turning him down the first time? Do you feel that your sister should be staying off him for some reason because he expressed his feeling for you first? Are you attracted to him now because you know that he actually has desirable qualities that women do want and you want that for yourself? Is he sweet and cute to your sister and you want that now that you saw that side of him? I don't know. I can't tell you why you feel how you feel, but you need to sort out why you even care.
Second of all, if they are in a relationship, there's nothing you should do. You should respect your sister and the guy to give them a chance at their relationship. It's unfair to jerk his feeling around with a rejection and then yank him when he's moved on or trying to move on. If they aren't, then you need to examine your true feelings for him and talk to your sister and to him.
2007-02-09 07:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U not attracted to him ok, your only jealous because you saw your sister huggin him up and you know that could have been you, but turn the guy down ok. So just let it be if the two of you were meant to be it will be.
2007-02-09 07:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by bootygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
will u didnt like him and u werent attracted to him b4.. the only reason u do now cuz ur sister is hanging around with him so ur feeling jealosu its just like when u were a kid and u want the doll ur sister had.. so grow up be happy for ur sister and dont do anything crazy u might regret ...
there is always one for u ..
goooooooooood lucks
2007-02-09 07:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Non_SEnse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy asked you out you should do it. don't be afraid. but first go to your sister and tell her why she hugged. after you talked to your sister go back to him that guy that asked you out and say it to him.
2007-02-09 07:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by xGoldScorpionx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
srry to invade your privacy chloe but if your talkin about san just ignore heer but i dont know who your talkin about but i had second thoughts about awnsering this question but im always in to help a frend out shaun (aka the muffin)
2007-02-09 13:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by clumsy gamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the feeling and move on its just jealousy... i get the same way at times. i don't want something until i see someone else with.
2007-02-09 07:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You turned him down. What else can you do but let it go.
2007-02-09 07:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember, there's plenty of other fish in the sea
2007-02-09 07:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋