For people who have children. How did your sex life change once you had babies?
2007-02-09 07:10:37 · 10 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The first few years, very few and far-between. Now that my kids are a little older (elementary school) we seem to have gotten back to our sexual "peak"--almost better than before! Have patience, persistence, and don't be afraid to say NO if you don't want to do it! Just make the times you do more memorable. ;) good luck!
2007-02-09 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by FairyGirl73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We didn't have it as much right afterwards because we were just too tired and of course I had to heal. However, I decided early on to not let being a mother take away my sexuality. So I spiced things up and got some lingerie, etc. Your sex life does change, but it can improve as well if you make the effort.
2007-02-09 15:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 kids ( boy 11 / girl 7) now that they grow we have the sex that we want. when they were baby's as long as they were sleep we have sex and make no difference. But I think every case is individual. Good Luck.
2007-02-09 15:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by alejandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah. we did it like rabbits before. in the first few months after the baby, we were too tired to even do anything. then when you actually do get to sleep, you just want to catch up on it or you have to find a time when the baby is asleep and the conditions are right. now after working all day and then cleaning up the house at night, we are usually too tired.
2007-02-09 15:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After babies it was far and few between. My wife and I had no supporting family members around. We took all the brunt with little relief. Sex actually was better when the opportunity did occur,however,,;-)=
2007-02-09 15:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one child, son little over 2 years old. It is not that often anymore. Between work and cleaning up after him and trying to continue your education, we hardly have time to even see each other. I hear it gets better as they get older.
2007-02-09 15:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by micaso1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a 2 month old daughter, and i can count with my fingers how much sex we've had...it slows down. Your just too tired to even think about it.
2007-02-09 15:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by maggie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowed down alot...and not just b/c there was a baby to take care of or sleep schedules....
2007-02-09 15:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by mikeyt6969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is now planed instead of spontaneous. :( unless the kids are being babysat
2007-02-09 15:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by junecleaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine has slowed down some but it's still there...it's different for everyone though
2007-02-09 15:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by ladyinblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋