k my boyfriend sammy really likes me. we've been together 1month and 1/2 k. Now iv'e opened my heart 1nce to another guys n it got stomped all over. now sammy wishes i would really give him a chance cuz he promises he won't do me like those other guys. should i give him my heart cuz i really trust n love him a lot. i've known him for 1year now. i'm just really on the edge can u please help me n tell me whether i should open up 2 him or not.by the way my names mary n im 14 n hes 15.
2007-02-09 06:56:19 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Mary you are young and I see we all have these problems about what we should do . I say if you trust him enough to open your heart then do so . If your not sure then he will have to wait until your ready . Do not rush love that is the problem we have to learn to like our mate as a best , best , best friend first . Then when you see how great it is you will feel free to open your heart . The one BIG QUESTION is , is that he never mentions sex ! If he does then leave him be because your heart will get stomped on again . They make you feel so good and make you think they love you and the truth is they only did it for sex . IT IS TRUE SO PLEASE LISTEN TO ME ! I am 31 yrs. old and have to kids by one man because my parents told me this speech . GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-02-09 07:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok mary well you are 14 so yeah why not give this guy a chance. but remember a month and a half isnt anything. you dont really know a guy in that time. trust me ive been with my fiance for 5 years now. and we have 2 kids. i got pregnant with our first when i was 15. now im 19 gonna be 20 next month and we have a 2 week old. and im still learning new stuff about him as he is me. so i dont see what is wrong with giving this guy a chance. by the way sammy is a cute name!!!
2007-02-09 15:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by malibu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to have your noses in your school books because you are both 2 young for a serious relationship you will meet other people and not want to be in a relationship with each other trust me.
2007-02-09 15:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you plan to get married? You sound like it, thats pittiful. Your still young and have plenty of kisses to go around but only one kind of love to give but it should be for the right person.
Like, when your 22, K?
2007-02-09 15:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by smoke_frm_apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should deffinately tell him, that way your relationship can keep moving forward, if u dont tell him then it's likely to come to a stop. tell him exactly how you feel about him, you will feel a hell of a lot better and it'll really please him! if you honestly trust him and believe he's different to the other guys uve been with go for it!
2007-02-09 15:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary, is it really necessary to put 'k' at the beginning and end of every other sentence?
2007-02-09 15:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love him and trust him i would open my heart to him but if the other girls before you have had there heart broke by him cause they opened there heart then i wouldnt but if he did hurt them then it should be ok.
2007-02-09 15:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by pancake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be youself. Be open to him, it wont hurt.
2007-02-09 14:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋