She found out I liked her, but now, she poses very personal questions and wants to be my closest girl friend. I do not understand her behavior because I have questioned whether she likes me, and she said we should be friends. Then she said she wanted our friendship to grow. Now, she wants to know things I do not even tell my best friends, and she keeps bringing the conversation to such topics. Why is she behaving like this?
2007-02-09 06:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her.
2007-02-09 07:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's nosy. Don't let her any closer if you want to be her boyfriend. Keep her at a distance until you have an established relationship but even then reserve some of your secrets for yourself. Girls like to play the "we're just friends.." game because they still get the guys attention interaction and activities that go along with being someones signifigant other (going out to eat guy volunteering to pay because he likes the girl even though they are friends) without the actual commitment. basically a way for them to use you like a tool and not have any consequences cause you are totally not attached as friends and can part ways at nearly any time with no repercussions
2007-02-09 14:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing the lady, it is hard to tell. I would guess that she is giving you the opportunity to see if you are friend material or maybe something more. I would take it as positive interest. She is basically saying you are a friend with possibilities.
The real question is how comfortable are you with it? If you really are uncomfortable with it, then you will have to talk to her about it. I personally would go along with it only if I thought
1) I really think I might want a relationship with her
2) I would like to be friends with her even if it doesn't work out romantically
Good luck
2007-02-09 15:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Paul D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls think its best to be friends with a guy first before they start dating them. She wants the friend ship to grow means she is almost ready for you to ask her again to be together. She is asking personal questions because she wants to know these things before she says okay lets go out. Valentines day is comming up so be careful she might expect some flowers.
2007-02-09 15:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to make sure she knows everything before committing to u, she wants to be sure she is investing in the right guy, she is smart, as when we first get with a person if we concentrated on conversation and getting to know everything about the person we would not be so disillusioned later on. she is doing what she needs to do so she can decide if your the one she wants. she must have a very high self worth, not leaving anything to chance, not falling for u just on the sexual aspect of it, not dependent on looks or lust, but facts. as in any relationship when the lust wanes, and it always does, she wants to be sure her relationship is based on more. she is beginning with a friendship she is smart. she wants to know everything about u, what your character is, your values, your belief system, etc...she wants no surprises if she takes the relationship farther. if more people did it like this, there would be less divorces.
2007-02-09 15:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with the angel_baby girl, she either just wants to get to know you better or she is a psychotic freak. If she is making you feel uncomfortable with the questions then tell her about it. It may upset her, but you don't need a girlfriend that makes you feel totally uncomfortable. I would get away from her, and not answer any of her questions. Girls are mean, you never know what they may be up to.--GL
2007-02-09 14:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is too soon to ask such personal questions from you or any of your friends. When/If the relationship grows then you can reveal more of you to her.
2007-02-09 14:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Plus Size Panther! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her way of getting to know you before entering into any kind of relationship other than friendship. She means well, but is going about it all wrong. You have to let her know how uncomfortable her questions make you. Tell her that there are some things about yourself you prefer to keep to yourself. I hope this has helped you!
2007-02-09 14:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you or is trying to decide if she does.. but the last girl that asked me so many personal questions (things even my best friends don't know) ended up not being very trustworthy.. so.. Run like hell...
2007-02-09 14:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by ramzoid1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
option 1, she is evil and just messing with you....
option 2.... she probably likes you you twit! she knows you like her, and she is showing an interest in connecting deeper with you. you say she wants to know things your best freinds do not know.... if you wish to get serious, your significant other should get to know you better than anyone else, she should be privy to feelings others do not know.
everything about this says she is looking to give you a chance. if you refuse her attempts at any emotional intamacy, she will likely eventually give up.
ps, this is best guess on limited info.
2007-02-09 14:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by foo__dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you, She wouldnt probe into your life if she didnt like you alot. Just tell her those things are unimportant and not to worry about them. Happy Early Valentines day <3
2007-02-09 14:54:40 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋