My sis is pestering me about how i've changed, i need a good comeback to like leave her speechless anyone got ideas?
2007-02-09 06:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My brother pesters me about my not changing along with him. Generally we have a talk and I explain to him that I just took a different path than him and I am changing, just not in the same way.
Remember that your emotions and feeling are different because you have different hormones. Explain this to her and tell her that she is changing too. Tell her that you still love her a lot and that you two were a lot alike when you were younger and you want to maintain an outstanding friendship with her, but you are just different now.
It is easier to stay friends than always fight about you changing.
You might also want to ask her if she is trying to hold you back. Tell her that that wouldn't be fair, because you give her room to change.
2007-02-09 07:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a younger sister or an elder one?
Tell her that yeah so what you've changed and it's your life and she really has no business liking it or not. Coz if she doesn't want to deal with it it's not like she's not gonna grow up too someday so just BACK OFF! (say this with emotion and frustration. Get mad. Get angry. Sisters can be such pests.)
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Tell her that changed or not you will still love her and that's something that never gonna change. (this hopefully appeals to the sentimental part of her. i've tried this once on one of my sisters and she CRIED. hah. of course i tried this on another sister during another incident and she just laughed in my face. tough call.)
Good Luck!
2007-02-09 07:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by mydea7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me a few days ago and I found the best way to deal with it is just not talking to her for a few days. If you have changed and you like the way you are then she needs to come to grips with it and love you for who you are. That's what sisters are supposed to do, right? Eventualy she will come around.
2007-02-09 06:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by sfoss33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her change is good besides if she did not change then life will leave her behind. if that does not work then tell her that you might have changed but her pestering hasn't.
2007-02-09 07:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lornaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "Of course I've changed. I'm becoming better everyday that I live and breath. Keep up or get out of the way."
2007-02-09 07:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sister was bugging the heck out of me and trying to get me to do something for her and I told her "I'm not BK. You can't always have it your way." i heard it from a movie and she got so mad that she left me alone.
2007-02-09 07:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a sis too, but we are twins, so, when ver i get REALLY mad at her, i give her what she wants and if she says i get what ever i want then i say YES, sure i do, because when evr i say that shes right shes gets even mader and she never knows what to say.
2007-02-09 06:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
''get over it...everybody else has" you can leave the second bit out hehe.
2007-02-09 06:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Gorg.Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REST...you RUST.
2007-02-09 06:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋