the way that you loved one is being cared for by their spouce?
Ok, my mother-in-law had a stroke a while back, she can not take care of herself, and she can not coumminicate very well.
I love both of them but am very concerned for the way that they are living. I have helped but with no effort on their half it dose no good. Their is cat poop all over their room, witch I have cleaned up several times. Its back again!! I cant tell you when the last time that she has had a shower, she phisically fights you on this issue. She really gets upset,yells and gives us the finger.
Do you get the state involved?? Do you not say anything? I love this woman with all my heart and she would not be happy with the way that she is living but I can not do this all on my own.
What do you think that I should do?
Staying away is not an option for me, Please help!
2007-02-09 06:43:27 · 2 answers · asked by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He will not get rid of the cats. I think that there is 7 of them! Other family members do come and try to help but with no progress. I have suggested an nurse to come in to help but he dosnt agree. I am the one that gets called to come everyday to have lunch and help out. This is now wearing thin on my family, I am married with three kids.
Please advise......
really need some help!
2007-02-09 06:47:54 · update #1
I could not live in that filthy environment and your man should not expect u to. And the way your mother in law is going she will end up having another stroke cause there is too much stress in the family she should go into care.
2007-02-09 10:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably need other family help or state involvement.
2007-02-09 16:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋