how do i come out of being shy?

Answer 1

all you do is be you self and not also will people want to be your friend you won't be shy anymore

Answer 2

this is probably one of the hardest things you'll ever do. I'm not going to lie and say it's easy because it's not. I'm still working on it. the first thing you need to do is see why exactly you're shy. I mean not everyone is shy for the same reasons. You may be afraid of what you'll say or what ppl will think of you or you may not like yourself or you just lack confidence. There's a lot of other reasons, but you need to figure out what yours is. mine was mostly appearance because i got teased a lot growing up and even though people stopped doing it as I got older I never really grew out of being so self-consious. So I had to figure out that was my problem before i could solve it. Now to come out of it you can do all kinds of things. Maybe go out by yourself and just talk to random people. I mean ppl you've never talked to before. Take up a hobby that would involve you meeting new people. It's going to take a while for you to realize that people will like you for the way you are and you don't have to hide it. but it will get easier(not be easy) the more you try at it.good luck!

Answer 3

Try not to let your fear overcome you. Just remember that the worse part of being shy is the moment you first start to speak and your afraid someone will think your dumb but after you start talking and start doing it more often the scary feeling becomes not so bad plus you will feel so good inside for trying to overcome your fear. And what helps me to do this is to remember why i am getting so nervous before i say something, I think people like me and you tend to put a higher value on what this persons opinion means, and why should it? even if they do think I'm dumb oh well they will get over it soon and by tomorrow it will be a distant memory.

Answer 4

Its not a diesease or anything so dont feel bad about it. Most people are unconfortable in many social sitiuations. I personally love shy girls because they are generally nicer people. If you want more freinds just smile and say hi more and it will take care of itself. If you are a nice person you will meet the right people eventually and of course you will suffer some pain and embarrasment along your path. Accept yourself.

Answer 5

no problem with being shy but if that will hold u from having ur rights or having more friends u need to have self confidence. think that way:
i will friendly & nice people with people so they will like me more that if i am quite so i will not be shy

Answer 6

You gotta work on your confidence I'm shy Im starting to break my shell though I used to not go anywhere alone and I wouldnt want to talk to cashiers and stuff like that but as time goes by I'm forcing myself to realize theres no reason to be afraid to say what I wanna say.

Answer 7

hahahaha

iam shy too , but not now

just you should talk loudly with your friends or the closest one friend, and so you will be get used to it and you can loose your shy, this will work. i lost my shyness in the similar way.

and other is try to participate in group events , if you can't talk just be there with them you will get an idea abt what they are discussing and you will also express your view

Answer 8

Do something you've never done before. Meet someone new, and start all over. Be yourself. Speak up. There are a million ways... All you need is the confidence! Next time when you want to say somethin... SAY IT! lol Hope I helped!

Answer 9

Well, I used to be SUPER and i mean super shy! I couldn't ask ANYONE out and then finally i cracked. It is so hard to ask someone out if you never had before...but once you've done it once or twice...its really easy to talk or flirt. Its like part of your daily scheldule!

Cassie-14

Answer 10

get a job working with the public...it worked for me and i was unbearably shy before