my brother is all most 17 and he is two inches small then me
he said that he is a "little person"
but he isnt small anuff to be one and he is sad that im his little sister and im taller and im sad to because i cant cheer him up
iv tryed buying him gifts
iv offerd to do his home work (=p)
i told him we could trade sizes if he wanted
but he all ways says...no thanks or that wont evan happen
me and my brother are really close
but lately he keeps geting sader
he was dumped last week
he gets made fun of at school(he isnt home schooled)
he doesnt have alot of friends and we share a room(we DO NOT SLEEP IN THE SAME BED) but we both sleep on the floor because we dont like are beds
i really feel sad because i feel like im loseing my brother
can any one help me to make him and ME happy again?
2007-02-09 06:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by princess peach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
buy a large bed for him and you.
2007-02-09 06:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by JustPeachy !!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that didn't hit his growth spurt until about that age. Honestly High School sucks! and people will make fun of whatever they can. I can tell you for a fact that once he is out of there, he wont have that problem anymore. I have TONS of friends of all different sizes, and size is not a problem to the world outside of high school. Just make sure he knows you are there. Don't offer to do everything for him, because that will kind of go along with the thoughts he has, that he is not competent enough...if that makes sense at all. Just support him without belittling him.
2007-02-09 06:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by kurihara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the first time in 10 months i am actually remembering my sister.
Wow i even have a sister! Nice to know there are sisters like you!
now to your que.....
the best thing to solve a prob based on insecurity is to remove its roots.
now since you brother has no fault in this matter (blame on inherited genes) there is nothing he can do.
so when you have such problems it is best to just forget about it.. chill.. why create problems for your self?
2007-02-09 07:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to boost his confidence. Compliment him for no reason, but don't over do it. Also try to go out with him to places where he can have fun and not worry about anything. And about the teasing at school, tell him that when they something to him, to stand up for himself. Not to fight, just to stand his ground. I hope i helped!
2007-02-09 06:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Yesenia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say pray to god and have him help him with his emotions . You can not really help him feel better ,you have tried everything you can . Help him find new friends and even maybe a girlfriend .
2007-02-09 06:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out a dress him up in something he would look good in and tell him he looks hot. maybe get him to get a little out of the box . oh tell him not to get discourage of his height because there is alot of other short heynas out there for him
2007-02-09 06:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your parents about getting your brother some professional help if this continues.
2007-02-09 06:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Renee D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to help him, tell him you love him and care for him. Ask him to tell you hat's going on. Eventually, he´'ll tell you what is in his mind and you'll be able to help him.
2007-02-09 06:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋