i dunno if i want to be with my boyfriend anymore...ive only been thinkn like this for a few weeks so i dont wanna say anything incase its just a fase... ive been with him for 5 years,
im 21 yr old and hes 22. he came to my house the other nite drunk and stayed until the early hours of the mornin even tho he knew i had 2 get up for work at 5.30am. and i was working a 12 hour shift the next day. silly things are really annoying me now!! i dont know what to do.
2007-02-09 06:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you two need a short break from each other.
2007-02-09 06:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice... is to take a day and pretend you broke up with him... (I am not saying go out and try to pick up another guy)
But rather an emotional test drive...
after 5 years... it might have lost a little bit of spice and that happens in a relationship... it can't be fireworks all the time...
That being said... you need spend some time and really think about it... spend a weekend out of town... or do something to get away from him for a day or too so you can really think it through...
2007-02-09 06:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sounds silly to me to expect to get more than a couple hours sleep before a 12 hour shift. Let him know when he's being inconsiderate. If he doesn't care enough about you to understand something as simple as that... then he's not trying very hard, is he?
2007-02-09 06:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a fase... i felt like that a few times for a bit and wondered if i liked him anymore. but then i would miss him. maybe it's something he did or said..? i dont kno , try to figure this one out for urself. ur the only one that knows.
2007-02-09 06:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's taking advantage of your generosity since you've been together so long. If you need a break, take one. There's nothing wrong with being single for awhile and figuring out what you want.
2007-02-09 06:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about the situation before taking a decision you will regret later.Have an open conversation with him as hard as it may be you have to to clear things up.
2007-02-09 06:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, u guys have been together for 5 years, u shudnt overreact. try talking to him about it, if he doesnt like it, maek him choose, bw u and his actions, tell them that u love him, and u want him to change for the better. make sure he knows how u feel ,adn that ur v upset with this
2007-02-09 06:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a month off from each other and tell him the next time he does that he is gone.
2007-02-09 06:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just streight way cut off the relations & get engaged in ur career
2007-02-09 06:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by dhootm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋