when my birth mother was pregnant with me, she did heroin when she was pregnant with me, so i get mad a lot in life, i think it is cause i'm craving heroin, yet i'm a good girl, so my boyfriend is trying so hard to understand why i get mad all the time, should i tell him its cause i was born addicted to heroin, and me getting mad is me craving heroin?
2007-02-09 06:00:59 · 22 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if that were the reason you were getting mad then sure you should tell him. However, look deeper and see if there isn't something else going on here as this just wouldn't be a herion addiction.
2007-02-09 06:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by ramzoid1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple fact that your mother did heroin while pregnant with you does not necessarily mean that you will be born addicted. I surmise you are not an addict yourself, right? I don't really think your anger has anything to do with the supposed craving for the drug. What do you think is the real reason why you get mad so easily? Look deep inside and you may come to a conclusion that you can handle with much more honesty.
2007-02-09 06:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I don't think that you are angry because you are craving heroine, i think it is because you know that your mother did you wrong. So if I were you I would tell him what happened when your mother was pregnant, and then I would talk to someone about your anger. It sounds like to me you are angry at other people for the things that your mother did to you before you were even born.
2007-02-09 06:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it! If you've never had it consciously in life, how do you know that's what you're craving. Maybe you want a banana in the patoot? How do you know? Maybe you are angry because you know the details surrounding your birth. Maybe you are hurt because you don't understand how a mother could do that. You should try to move past that hurdle, and put it behind you because it is not who you are. That was your birth mother's life, not yours. Make the most of the life YOU have left. Let the anger go.
2007-02-09 06:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by AlloAllo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a novel idea. Lets all blame our parents problems for ours. Honey the heroin, may have caused you some problems in life if your were born addicted to it, however you are no longer addicted to it. this is just a great excuse. Seek help for your anger issue, and stop deluding yourself. If you tell this to your boyfriend, he will NEVER believe you as we all on yahoo answers don't.
2007-02-09 06:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually all of you who have stated that someone can not suffer addiction later on in life should have done research before responding.
I think that constantly being angry could be medically classified as a Behavioral abnormality!!!!
She is right about what she is saying. You ignorant inconsiderate people should show a little more compassion. But I guess I shouldn't be suprised, it is easy to judge someone you don't give a sh** about!!! That is what is wrong with society, if it doesn't directly impact you as an individual than you don't care!!!
Just let him know hunny, you guys will be fine.
2007-02-09 06:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the first answer, heroin babies can be born with an addiction. But i think being honest with your BF is something that is key to a relationship working. Tell him the truth, if he needs space for a few minutes, give it to him. SHow him you care about the success of your realationship by opening up to him. Just dont do heroine and i think youll be ok.
2007-02-09 06:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I really don't think that's even possible for you to be craving heroin at your age. Newborn babies can sometimes have cravings, but that goes away within a week I think. That excuse is redicolous.
2007-02-09 06:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell him why you always get mad i also think you are stupid for thinking you crave drugs because of that you probably already have done heroin and need someone or somthing to blame it on. which is chickenshit we make our own choices for our future reguardless of our past you are only hidding from your true feelings and self destructing its not your moms fault it will be yours if you go down that road
2007-02-09 06:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by naughty&nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you better talk to a profesional and find out what the real problem is. Heroin withdrawls aint it this many years later.
2007-02-09 06:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by EGOman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋