he loves me???
There's this guy that i really like and i really want that at least we'll become friends. I find himself staring/or just looking at me sometimes, but when i try to do eye ontact with him he looks down in a sort of embaressed way. I always catch him looking at me but he never actually talked to me! Well, he did once, and he had that voice as if embarresed in a way or something like that. Do you think that maybe he loves me, or is he just i don't know, just looks at people around him and it doesn't make a difference about being me or someone other
My friend is great friends with him and i find myself jealous sometimes....IT's just natural i guess when you love someone. I need to find a way how i can build a relationship(at least of friends) with him, but with my friend, she'll laugh at me and.....
Does he love me first of all?
I always dream about him day and night, day and night all my thoughts are focused on him...
it's just that we never really talked.and i;m 2sh
2007-02-09 05:51:14 · 24 answers · asked by m.buffon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he love you, he doesn't even know you and has never talked to you? Of course he does not love you. Since your friend is friends with him, hang out with him sometime. Get to know him. See if you even have anything in common.
2007-02-09 05:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love ain't love until you give it away, but to answer your question NO, this isn't love, its infactuation. Get to know the guy in casual settings, watch him from a distance, and move slowly. Don't expect everything so quick! While life is short, you are very young and have plenty of time to develop relationships over the coming years. Stop pushing so hard and love will find you.
2007-02-17 01:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll assume you're still in school. High school possibly.
If you have any classes with him go to him with an assignment and ask him if he understands it. If he thinks it's weird that you came to him from all the people in the room tell him you asked the people around you and they didn't know. If you see him at any activity smile. Be confident. Even if you don't have a class together but share a same teacher, after you're absent one day, ask him what you missed that say in Ms. So's class.
Good Luck!
2007-02-09 06:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you 2 just meat then i don't really think it is love but if you give it a little bit of time it might end up theat way and there should be no reason for you to be jealous mabey your friend is jealous of you cause this boy likes you i don't know well good luck with yor problem and i hope you get him.
2007-02-09 05:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love" is a VERY powerful word.
You have to learn about someone before you can make that assessment. If you straight up come out and say you love him in your first real conversation, he might get scared and run off. Start small (talking to him, possibly go out for a bite), then take mental notes and assess him during the whole time. In time, you'll see him for his true self, and vice versa. Then and only then can you make that phrase.
2007-02-09 06:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't truly love you with out knowing who U really R as a person, but he probably thinks U R really hot. As you describe your thoughts U must think he's hot too. Just go up and talk to him.Ask him to a movie or a walk in the park. Find out his interests and then talk to him about that. Guys love to talk about them selves and subjects they R interested in. Give it a shot you'll never know unless U put your self out there.
2007-02-16 22:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by rozerred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he doesn't love you - he doesn't know you. Sounds like he's interested but shy. Maybe he thinks you're out of his league. If you're in a class with him (which it kind of sounds like), see if you can find a reason to talk to him. Like...Can he share his notes with you?...Would he like to study together sometime? Keep it casual so he doesn't feel pressured and you don't get embarrassed if he declines. Whatever happens, hold your head up and be confident!
2007-02-09 06:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi !!!
He does likes you!! But as far as loving you , that you have to find out for yourself!!!
Ask your friend to talk to him about something that will give youan excuse to be close to hom and if he start speaking to you then do take advantage, and talk to him. try to change the conversation to see if he stay interested on you!!!
Just try!!! Don't be shy, if you are to shy probably he will think that you are NOT interested in him!!!
GOD LUCK , GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-02-16 20:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend told this guy about you loving him. He know this and looks at you and possibly too shy to talk, thinking you love him and he doesn't even know you well. Have your friend bring a date and you and the guy go out the four of you! to McDonalds or something.
2007-02-09 05:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in LOOOOOVE! Make a move. He os shy. He likes you too, but cannot make the first move. So, lead him on!
Chatt him up, ask him to see a movie with you and take it from there. He is an easy catch. Catch him!
Good luck!
2007-02-09 05:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋