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that he has a girlfriend that he's been with for a while. She's seen me with him and still she's coming at him, well at least from what I know but I don't think if something was going on that he would openly tell me about it. I mean if I was cheating I wouldn't bring up out of the blue.."oh so and so keeps bothering me to give him some" or whatever the case may be. I would love nothing more than to intervine but I said that is something that he has to deal with. Now my question is why go after him if you know he has someone eles? I mean it's a completely different story if you didn't know so why stoop so low as to use sex to get him back?

2007-02-09 05:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by Mimy ImFurst 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

Just let it be

2007-02-09 05:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

She is doing it as a power trip. She wants to show that she has control over him still ( she may, or may not...depending on his reaction). She will keep trying until she has competition. I had the same thing happen to me. my boyfriends ex was calling him in the middle of the night, wanting to get together. He is shy, and couldnt tell her to back off. his approach was to not pick up the phone. I picked it up and said that the only lovin he is going to get is from me, and he wouldnt touch her with a 9ft pole, so to back the "F" off. lol, sometimes thats what they need to hear, to realize they are no longer in the picture...I am sure your boyfriend is just waiting for her to stop calling rather than confront her, so maybe you should intervene.

2007-02-09 05:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by sjhockeyfan 3 · 0 0

she is doing it because she finally realize that she lost something that is worth keeping for a long time.

2007-02-09 05:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0 0

some people are just like that, they don't care if he is with another person because she may think she can steel him away, good luck

2007-02-09 05:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0 0

Sex is the best way if he ain't gettin "done" at home.

2007-02-09 05:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by dd 4 · 0 0

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