My bf don't seem to appreciate me and I don't want to lose him. I know about the no contact rule. I just want to know how long do you think I should have no cantact with him? So far it's been 2 weeks and he's been calling but I won't answer. He left a message last night saying that he misses me. So I called him back and was somewhat dry with him and then told him I would call him back later. I guess I was too available so I know that is why he really acts the way he does.
2007-02-09 05:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by teri d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well dont ignore him all together thats bad!! just dont be as availible.....if you guys have only been dating like a couple of months then cut back the time that you see him......i read a book about this cause there was this guy that i wanted to be with so bad and i would always dropped what i was doing to be with him and guys dont like that all the time(sometimes ok) not more than once a month.....and i
stopped seeing him so much and i was the hardest thing telling him that ii was busy and that i had other plans but within a couple of weeks he didnt take me for granted anymore and he treated me so much better!! i would say only see this guy NO MORE THAN 3 times a week for a while then after a month or so you can move it up to 4times a week.......and when he calls never stay on the phone more than 5 minutres with him then say your busy but you would like to hang out but need more notice so you dont make other plans first then hell know that your not just waiting for his call........just dont ignore him all together though thats really bad
2007-02-09 05:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No contact rule? Who made that up? Those are games your playing! No relationship can withstand game playing! Try talking to him about whatever the problem is!
2007-02-09 06:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off instead of going about it this way you should have sat down and talked to him on regards of how you are feeling.Because if you keep it up this way your bound to lose him.Don't leave people in the dark TALK.
2007-02-09 05:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing stupid games. Wow now there is a healthy fun relationship. You two need to grow up. Either date or dont.
2007-02-09 05:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you decided to play games with him? You probably already damaged your relationship with him. Keep going and he will leave and never talk to YOU.
2007-02-09 05:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋