in need of a verse to put in our wedding invitations?

Question

we need to ask our guests in a polite way that we dont want them to buy us any gifts for our wedding but we would rather them give us money to take on our honeymoon in new york. we whould like this done in rhyme, any ideas greatfully apprecaited

Answer 1

Here are a few ideas

Invitation Script 1
Friends, as you are aware we already have most items needed to 'set up house'. This is the reason for us choosing a wedding wishing well. At the reception there will be a wishing well in which we would love to receive your greeting card and contribution. This will be a great way for us to pool together and buy ourselves something quite luxurious, or to make our honeymoon even better.

Invitation Script 2
To support us on our special day you may wish to follow with tradition and bring a gift. Or alternatively you may like to help us make our honeymoon a little more special. For this reason we have chosen a wedding wishing well. The wishing well will be at the reception where we can receive your best wishes and contribution.

Invitation Script 3
They have their dishes and towels for two
They have pots and pans and oven mitts too
So what do you get for the Bride & Groom
Whose house is setup in every room?
Their house needs repairs and some upgrades too
But you can not register for carpet and glue.
A well that holds wishes is the way to go
So lets make it easy for all that know.
An envelope will be provided for those who have room,
To give a monetary wish to the Bride and Groom
A wishing well will be on display at the reception hall
To attach your wishes, for the couple, with love from all.

Invitation Script 4
Because at first we lived in sin
We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin
A gift from you would be swell
But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well!!

Invitation Script 5
More than just kisses so far we've shared,
Our home has been made with Love and Care,
Most things we need we've already got,
And in our home we can't fit a lot!
A wishing well we thought would be great,
(But only if you wish to participate),
A gift of money is placed in the well,
Then make a wish .... but shhh don't tell!
Once we've replaced the old with the new,
We can look back and say it was thanks to you!
And in return for your kindness, we're sure
That one day soon you will get what you wished for.

Invitation Script 6
Soon you will hear our wedding bell,
As Friends and family wish us well.
Our household thoughts are not brand new,
We have twice the things we need for two.
Since we have our share of dishes and bedding,
We're having instead a wishing well wedding.
But more important we ask of you,
your prayers of love and blessings too!

Invitation Script 7
This wishing well is here today for family and friends. Take an
envelope, make a wish and please drop it in. As it falls into the
well your wish, for the couple, will come true. A token for the
couple, to help them begin, will be welcomed, too. Please take the
time to make a wish before the day is through.

Invitation Script 8
Now we are to be Mr & Mrs
We don't need a wedding list of dishes
we have two kettles, two toasters, two microwaves
We require a house for which we have to save.
If you would like to give us a gift,
A cheque or vouchers would give us a lift
We like to think of it as our 'Wishing Well'
Which will be filled with your love, we can tell.

Invitation Script 9
Our home is quite complete now,
we've been together long,
so please consider our request and do not take us wrong.
A delicate request it is, we hope you understand.
Please play along as it will give our married life a hand.
The tradition of the wishing well is one that's known by all.
Go to the well, toss in a coin and as the coin does fall,
Make a wish upon that coin and careful as you do.
Cause as the well's tradition goes your wishes will come true.
So on this special day of ours, the day that we'll be wed.
Don't hunt for special gifts but give money in it's stead.
And as you drop the envelope with money great and small,
Remember, make your wish as you watch your money fall.

Invitation Script 10
"We've been together a few years now;
we have pots and pans and linen and towels;
we have glasses and toasters, really quite a few;
so instead of more gifts, we suggest this to you;
if it doesn't offend and it won't send you running;
what we would really appreciate is quite simply money;
we know choosing gifts can be such a pain;
and this way there is no chance of bringing the same."
What do you think?

Invitation Script 11
"If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help us on our way.
A gift of cash towards our house, would really make our day.
However, if you prefer to purchase a gift, feel free to surprise us in your own way."

Invitation Script 12
"We really would appreciate a little money of our own,
instead of a little gift for our new home!"
We know you want to find something nice
But it's such a hassle to find the right price
So come and enjoy the day all sunny
We really would appreciate a little money.

Invitation Script 13
To save you looking, shopping or buying.
Here is an idea, we hope you like trying.
Come to our wedding, to wish us both well.
And bring this small sack, to throw in our wishing well.
Fill it with paper all colours will do, gold is our favourite but silver will do.
Now that we have saved you, all of that fuss.
We hope you will come, and celebrate with

Answer 2

Any requests for gifts, whether it be from your registry, or cash, should be handled by people close to the couple through word of mouth. It is considered EXTREMELY tacky and downright rude to put any request for any specific gift in the wedding invitation, or any of the enclosures to the invite. The best way to handle this is have your parents, wedding party members, close family answer when they are inevitably asked what you would like that "Sarah and John would really appreciate cash, they are saving for a honeymoon to New York, and aren't really in need of household goods." However, guests are not obliged to give you something just because you asked for it. I would be prepared to not get enough in cash to cover your expenses for your honeymoon.

Answer 3

The only thing that I can come up with is to NOT register anywhere and hope that people just give money instead of a gift. Which I know I would do if I got a wedding invite and it did not give me any registry info. For the record. I dont know of any politically correct way to SAY that!!!!!!

Answer 4

There is no polite way to ask for money. Period. End of sentence. No matter how cutesy you try to make it, it's still ridiculously tacky.

The truth of the matter is most people DO give money as a wedding gift. However, some people don't believe in giving money, and you WILL get gifts, and that's just the way of it.

Be thankful they want to get you anything at all. Sorry.

Answer 5

Honestly, I would not put anything like that on the invitation. Don't register at any stores and let your parents know ya'll need money more than anything. That way when people ask what they should get, your parents and both of you can politely say that you don't really need anything for the house, but money for your honeymoon would be helpful.

Answer 6

I think that it come across as tacky and presumptious - and might alienate some people, which would not be good for a wedding day.

But you could try and get word passed round to a few people that you are short of cash for the honeymoon and let people make their own choices from that.

Answer 7

Don't do that it is rude and tacky. Thought I had heard everthing when some posted how to ask but to put it in verse. DEFINITELY NO NO NO!!! Some may not mind but majority of guests would be offended. All the very best for the future.

Answer 8

I really don't know if it's rude or not but if you do something like that mention something like...." the greatest gift you could give us is your best wishes and, if you so desire, financial help for a picture perfect honeymoon to New York." make it very optional or tell them of your plan so they can give you a gift that can be used for the honeymoon.

Answer 9

there is no polite way to ask for money. thats just bad taste. a gift is optional for anyone attending a wedding and i definitely wouldn't be attending if i got an invitation with a give me money note inside

Answer 10

Sorry, BAD taste! You cannot ask people to come to your wedding with cash! If they want to buy you a gift, they can and you should accept graciously. I know, I know, that is not what you want, but please, just register for gifts(not many) and save face.

Have a dollar dance at the reception. We had a small reception but walked out with a tidy sum for the honeymoon! (And we didn't want to do the dance, silly us!)