I have always wanted to wait until I am married but will he get tired of waiting?
2007-02-09 05:30:26 · 39 answers · asked by dark angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has respect for you waiting should not be a problem.
if it is a problem then in what other ways will he not respect you in the future?
a marriage without respect usually is short term. your asking this question shows you are not thinking short term.
2007-02-09 05:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by jbugg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian so I AM waiting until marriage. The guy that is meant for you won't have a problem waiting, my boyfriend is also a Christian and he feels exactly the way I do, so we're both virgins. You shouldn't feel like in order to keep someone you have to sleep with them. The right person shouldn't and wouldn't make you feel that way. You're virginity is something precious and should only be given to someone worthy of it, like your husband. He loved you enough to want to spend the rest of his life with you. Why give it to someone who could be gone tomorrow and all you were was someone to have fun with? Just think about when you get involved with any guys. See their view on the whole thing before you even get your feelings tied up in this person. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-09 05:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say you should make him wait for about a month because you know how guys is but if he try to force you to do it than i think you should make him wait for 2 years because no one can not make you do something you don't want to do but if you up for it i think you should wait for a month and than give it a try and see if you like it or not good luck girl and happy valentines day.
2007-02-09 05:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you that much, he will wait for you forever. It does not matter when you decide to marry but from experience when it happens you will know how much he loves you and he will show you how much longer he was going to wait.
If this guy does not like to wait then you knw that he is only after sex but if he waits for you to be ready..then you know the answer
2007-02-09 06:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lornaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody on here that telling you "if he really loves you he'll wait" is full of crap! If you don't put out, he's gonna get out unless you date a born again at some midwest school. You need to sleep with different people to learn about your likes and dislikes. Sex is one of the most important things in a marraige and if you're not sexuallt compatable, you're doomed right from the start!
2007-02-09 05:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard a good quote once..."Lust can never wait to take, while love can always wait to give." My advice? If he loves you, then it will be based on much more than sex. A truly good strong relationship is built on so much more than the physical. Take it from someone who has experienced both ways...if you don't wait you will always wish you had, in your heart of hearts, and the committment to each other is stronger for the waiting.
2007-02-09 05:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Gumbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It all depends on you ,when you think it's right,when you feel the urge and you have the desire with him.Girl,especially when really like him and you think he is cute and he starts making moves on you.I am mean the idea of waiting until you getting sound good and is good but the thing about that is the "guy".There are very few guys whoa re going to want to wait I mean very few.Most of them are going to get frustrated.Mostly yes he is going to get tired.Good luck!
2007-02-09 05:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nydia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets tired of waiting then he's not the guy for you. If you want to wait until marriage then do so. Don't compromise your beliefs because of some guy who doesn't respect you enough to see that your beliefs are important to you.
2007-02-09 05:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the guy loves you and cares for you then he will wait til you are married or until you are ready without putting any pressure on you.
2007-02-09 05:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by kaspa_da_ghost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gets tired of waiting, it's because he thinks you aren't worth the wait. Wait as long as you feel you need to. I've had guys break up with me because I wouldn't put out, and yeah, it sucked, but I moved on and found someone who isn't trying to rush me into it. If he gets tired of waiting, it's because he thinks he's "entitled" to it. Newsflash: he isn't.
2007-02-09 05:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by Alecto 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
I'm a guy and I'm 23 and waiting for marrage. It sucks... but at the same time, I havent knocked anyone up and I'm not dealing with any STD's
Wait it out. If It's really love, Make them sign a contract that says they aren't leaving right after.
2007-02-09 05:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by jay m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋