My fiance's ex wife had an affair with the boyfriend of one of my fellow employees. He has said him and the fellow employee came close to having sex. BUT DIDN"T. she is way thinner than I am and younger. I am 6 years older than my finace. We are expecting our first child together and have been together 7months. Lately I feel like we aren't as close as we used to be and sex occurs very little. I have talked to him about it and his reply was he doesn't need sex. He gets calls or texts from unknown people. He wont read the texts or answer the calls while I am around. Sometimes he will be making calls and when I walk into the room he hangs the phone up. And this other female is being too nice to me lately.
2007-02-09 05:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by law woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Big red flags! When he doesn't want you to know who he's talking to, you have to wonder why. You need to talk to him about it... and let him know (assuming it's true) that you'd rather deal with a difficult truth than an easy lie.
2007-02-09 05:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by selena n 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions just yet. But try to get his phone bill and see who is calling or whom he is calling. Catch him asleep and try to read his phone without getting caught.
Married men tend to lose interest in sex anyway. I am finding this out, we had a great sex life until we were married a few months. I am learning it usually is the wife that becomes "sex starved." It is not a matter of how small in size you are either, or age. If someone loves you it should not matter. I have been the younger woman thin in shape pretty and still after I was married, sex dropped dramatically.
Keep your eyes and ears open. Try not to worry just put it in Gods hands he usually shows you what you need to see.
2007-02-09 13:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy says he doesnt need sex he is lying. for what reason i dont know. child thing or other woman thing its hard to tell. some guys dont want to have sex with their women if they are pregnant. the calls and texts are weird though.
apparently us law people dont work. haha
2007-02-09 13:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH YOUR GUT!!!! If you have a bad feeling about it, chances are you are 100% RIGHT!! If his acting like he is hiding something...thats because he is. Confront him about the situation and get rid of him, once a cheater always a cheater!
2007-02-09 13:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by dekota1997 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound good... time to contact Cheaters and get to the bottom of this
2007-02-09 13:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there is no trust in your relationship, if he is hiding things from you there is deffinitly a problem, trust me.
2007-02-09 13:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE'S CHEATING!!!!!
2007-02-09 13:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋