we've been out 5 times (first had sex on 3rd time). she asked me out originally and we seem to get on well but i can't tell if she wants more than sex. we're both 23 and i really like her. she is always out with her mates and i'm always with mine, but i'm the only 1 making any effort. please help??
2007-02-09 05:06:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to know is to ask her bluntly. She is the only one who will know the answer to this. Not us. It's not final until said and agreed upon. if you are going out, lay out your expectations between each other. Don't head trip if your just f*ck buddies. If you think you are starting to, ditch the relationship. head trips suck to have, and can really get you down and frusterated with life. They are not worth it. Good Luck!
2007-02-09 05:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are her lover more than a boyfriend.
Normally, boyfriends are incorporated in one's life
and activities and introduced to one's family and friends.
The question becomes what do you want? If you want
to be the boyfriend, then you need to ask her what she is
looking for. If she only wants a lover, then you may need
to end the relationship before you get hurt.
2007-02-09 05:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sound familiar , thats the way i was with my partner .He had his mates and i had mine .We were the same to begin with we have just bought a house together and got engaged at christmas we spend time together and with our mates ,She probably doesnt want to seem to interested incase u arent (well thats wot i did) She her that u care (but dont go over the top she may think u are a bit desperate ) make her feel special (breakfast in bed after the night before),everrthing else will fall into place
2007-02-09 08:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by miss_ninety_ukuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello what are you stupid ask the dam women out and give us all a break. Just kidding no really hows the sex is she the one. If so than why you her asking us. I know what I'd be doing.
2007-02-09 05:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time...and after 3 months have a discussion to define the relationship. It might happen naturally.
2007-02-09 05:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it almost sounds like she's using u...u should spend more time together, go to the movies, do something outragiously crazy, just cause u can.. if u r the only one making the efforts, then show her that she needs to too.. (slow down on everything that ur doing,) hope that helps..
2007-02-09 05:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by i just wanna rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Great, Hopefully she just wants you to be her lover.
Keep up the good work!
LiL EarlE
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2007-02-09 05:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by LiL EarlE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a lover. Not a bad place to be, but you have to ask her what she wants in order to be sure. You also never said what you are interested in.
2007-02-09 05:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be playing a little hard to get (and it seems to be working well!)
Why not get her flowers and a little other gift on valentines day, it can't do any harm and may win her heart
2007-02-09 05:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to be someone just there to hang out with and have sex with until you open your mouth and tell her your true feelings and once you do that then you'll have the ball rolling my friend
2007-02-09 05:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋