she is soo totally out of control! she kicks my cats head...she retaliates when scolded..like sticking tongue out and showing a fist and daring you to slap her. she finds anything like flour, rice to strew it all over the house, she touches every single thing in your room...(she touched my laptop, took my cream and smear all over my room...etc) worst of all...since she is my step sis..i cant really do anything to her?and plus... im an only child and only had a step sis when i was 17!!!help??
2007-02-09 04:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by 'N' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
btw, heard from stepmom(im kinda close to her tho) that she has always been like dat. and that she is two faced...she goes to sch and acts like an angel but at home totally the opp!
2007-02-09 04:58:07 · update #1
oh yea forgot to mention..she terrorizes the whole house..not only my room...tho my room got hit the worst
2007-02-09 05:01:26 · update #2
i shared my things and it came down to this..she luvs touching the things even more...she gets mischievous and touched and acts like its hers(happend to my laptop where i showed her sum cartoon websites,she den messed ard with it and deleted sum of my projects!)and she doesnt share her stuff..and is very rude...she calls everyone stupid...man..i dunno wad else to do...no matter wad i do..im nice to her or not..her attitudes the same..no change in behaviour...all the scolding or nice pep talk, juz dun work...
2007-02-09 05:07:20 · update #3
one of my friends has a daughter that acts out in a similar fashion, really everyone else has to pull together and get stern with this girl. Maybe tell your parents they need to sit down and talk with her and see if something is bugging her that she is acting like that, otherwise they need to let her know there are going to be consequences and actually inforce those when she doesn't listen. i know taking my nephews toys away is something that shuts them up really fast. Also any privileges they can take away, the need to start taking them if she refuses to listen. Sure she is five... but it will only get worse. Children push their boundaries... they want to see how far they can go without getting in trouble so if she isn't getting in trouble she will take that boundary and run with it.
good luck and sorry about your things!!!
2007-02-15 18:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you don't feel as if you have any right to do anything about this then there is something wrong here if she is messing with your stuff you have to put her in her place and make her stop intill she gets it through her head that she should not be misbehaving other wise for all the other stuff she does around the house that should be the parents responsibility to take care of it not yours and I also suggest that you keep your cat in a place where she can not get to it if possible. If this was my step sis I would have just slap her up side the back of her head but you may not be able to do that
2007-02-09 04:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's acting out. Something is bothering her and she is unable to explain the emotions that are going on with her. Remember, she's five. Your parents need to step and take control of the situation. I wonder if she's targeting you for a reason. Is this due to a new marriage?
An added note, you may want to tell her that it is ok to be upset and be angry. Everyone gets angry. But, it's not ok for her to ruin your things because she's angry. Have her take it out in drawing. Why don't you two also do something together. Treat her like the sister she is. You can take her to the park, color together, bake cookies together...something. Establish a bond.
2007-02-09 04:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your parents' problem, not yours. They need to control and discipline their child. I would buy a lock for my room and keep it locked at all times when I wasn't there. Other than that, ignore the little brat no matter what she does. Unless your parents are making you clean up her mess, I wouldn't care about whatever else she does.
2007-02-09 05:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by lizzgeorge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said that you were 19. you need to talk to your father. have the step mother put her kid in control. she should be paying for your destroyed iteams. if your father refuses to speak to his wife i know it is unfair but hey you have no choice but to move out. when i was younger my father never stood up to my cousins. they were not very nice to me always taking what little i had. even my grandmother used to give all my cousins my bed. everytime i would get a decent bed she would give it away to a family or a friend. if the mother did not like the way her kid was acting she would not allow this behavior. your step sister is spoiled and is not bound to any set rules. she is a product of her mother hate to say it but your step mother is not a good mother. not if her kid is acting like a terrorist. just move out if nothing is done!
2007-02-09 05:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an issue that you need to discuss with your parents. It is up to them to control her and teach her to respect your space. Or, you could move out.
2007-02-09 04:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try talking to her.All this thing that she does it could be a cry for attention.Maybe she feels lonley or jeouls and by distroing your things and making you trouble she feels safe.The violence it can not soleved things but a good or little affection can! Try sharing your things with her!
2007-02-09 05:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to sit her down and tell her she needs to clam down for else! Cuase her actions are ruining your belongings and if she really cared for you she would respect them.Tell her that! Don't ask thought. Just tell her!
2007-02-09 04:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by The Lovely Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your parents and i fthey don't do something get a lock for your room and lock it when you are gone and when you are there lock the door when you are in there peroid. that is the end of it.
2007-02-15 19:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who says your can't hit her it's only right for you to discipline her for doing wrong or try talking to your parents and tell them you will retaliate if she continues with the negative behavior
2007-02-09 04:57:41 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋