2007-02-09 04:38:09 · 21 answers · asked by kymee1112 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah.. the thing is i didnt even do anything, he totally doesnt live here.. I liked him then he told the people i was moving in with some stupid **** and they believed him rather then me so now I am not moving in with them.. so he's just an idiot :@
2007-02-09 07:25:33 · update #1
Get back at him by getting on with your life and being happy despite whatever he may have done to make you otherwise.
Happiness is the best revenge!
2007-02-09 04:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think 'getting back at him' will help YOU? Revenge may be 'satisfying' in the 'short term' but in the 'long run' any 'revenge' you do toward someone will also 'hurt you' ... even if it is just your 'reputation' that is damaged. When I was a child, my mother and grandparents always taught me that 'the best revenge is living well' ... and I really believe that is the BEST thing you can do. Just 'live as well as possible' and 'forget him' and you'll soon see that he couldn't hurt who you 'really are inside' and that you are actually probably 'much better' now that he's 'gone from your life.'
2007-02-09 12:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, try to move on, getting back at him does nothing but dredge up more negative feelings. Just focus on yourself, whatever he did to you, he no longer needs to garner any sort of attention from you, especially if he screwed you over. Don't let him have that kind of power of you. Take this as a life lesson, learn from your experience, and just live your life. Don't dwell on the past because it will only hold you back from new, more meaningful experiences in the present and the future.
2007-02-09 12:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to take revenge against someone who has done you wrong is to live well. Putting your energy into a negative activity like revenge is counterproductive and wastes time you could have spent making your own life better.
He screwed up your life because YOU let him. Forgive him, not for his benefit, but for your own because you can't put what he did behind you until you do. You don't have to tell him you forgive him...just do it in your own heart and reclaim your life.
2007-02-09 12:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chanteuse_ar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around, so Karma will bite him in the butt. Don't risk doing it yourself.
Instead...focus all of your hatred/animosity/resentment into positive channels to try to "fix" what has been screwed up and make the most of the rest of your life.
You will be the better person for this. Don't worry, he'll get his. It always comes back!
2007-02-09 12:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by AlloAllo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get him back, you won't need to, he will do enough damage to himself. You don't even need to worry about "him" anymore. you need to get back on your own two feet and take care of business. When you are doing good and he sees you in the future, that will do more harm to him than any revenge you could plot, actually now that i think about that is how you get him back, you become a successful, happy person. You win.
2007-02-09 12:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "forgive" someone you allow yourself to stop thinking about it.
Revenege might help for 10 seconds but it will only be ahigh and the consequences will be much higher. No one can really screw up your life you made choices, take responsibility.
2007-02-09 12:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok to be mad but two wrongs do not make a right. don't get back at him just try to forgive him and move on. that was in the past and there is no future in the past. he is not worth your time and effort. you are the better person. learn from this mistake.
2007-02-09 12:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get that low. That is just ridoulous. But change your life and when its your high school reuion show him up. Show him that you have changed for the better and he's still a screw up.
2007-02-09 12:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by The Lovely Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how he screwed up your life but u were there while it was happening so maybe u r partly to blame. I would advise against seeking revenge....
2007-02-09 12:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋